Premature ejaculation issues?
Hello doctor, I have a question that has been bothering me for a long time.
The area just below the glans, where it connects to the shaft of the penis, is very sensitive.
Whenever I engage in sexual activity with my girlfriend, I finish very quickly, but the glans itself is not very sensitive.
It's just that connection area that is overly sensitive.
Should I see a doctor about this, or are there any methods to resolve this issue? This problem has troubled me for a long time, and I hope you can help me.
Thank you!
Xiao Guo, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2012/05/31
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Xiao Guo: Hello, everyone's sensitive areas are different.
If you find them too sensitive, you can coordinate with each other to reduce stimulation in those areas or change positions.
This cooperation should effectively improve the issue of premature ejaculation.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Answers from the internet should only be used as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical attention at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department, Taitung Hospital, Department of Health, Executive Yuan.
Reply Date: 2012/05/31
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men at some point in their lives. It is characterized by ejaculation that occurs sooner than desired, often with minimal sexual stimulation. This can lead to distress, frustration, and relationship issues. Understanding the causes and potential solutions is crucial for managing this condition effectively.
Causes of Premature Ejaculation
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and performance pressure can significantly impact sexual function. If a man is overly concerned about sexual performance or has had negative experiences in the past, this can lead to premature ejaculation.
2. Biological Factors: Certain biological factors may contribute to PE, including hormonal imbalances, neurotransmitter levels, and sensitivity of the penis. In your case, you mentioned that the area just below the glans (the head of the penis) is particularly sensitive. This heightened sensitivity could be a biological factor contributing to your experience.
3. Medical Conditions: Some medical conditions, such as prostatitis or thyroid issues, can also lead to premature ejaculation. If there are underlying health concerns, addressing them may help alleviate the symptoms.
4. Relationship Issues: Sometimes, difficulties in a relationship can manifest as sexual dysfunction. Open communication with your partner about sexual preferences and concerns can be beneficial.
Solutions and Management Strategies
1. Behavioral Techniques: There are several techniques that can help manage premature ejaculation:
- Start-Stop Technique: This involves stimulating the penis until you feel close to ejaculation, then stopping until the urge decreases. Repeating this process can help you gain better control over ejaculation.
- Squeeze Technique: Similar to the start-stop method, this involves squeezing the base of the penis when you feel close to ejaculation to reduce the urge.
2. Desensitizing Products: Over-the-counter creams or sprays that contain numbing agents can help reduce sensitivity. Applying these products to the sensitive area may help you last longer during intercourse.
3. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through exercises, such as Kegel exercises, can improve control over ejaculation. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles used to stop urination.
4. Counseling or Therapy: If psychological factors are contributing to your condition, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address anxiety and improve sexual confidence.
5. Medical Treatment: If behavioral techniques and over-the-counter products do not provide relief, it may be worth consulting a healthcare professional. Prescription medications, such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), have been shown to delay ejaculation in some men. Additionally, a healthcare provider can assess if there are any underlying medical conditions contributing to your symptoms.
When to See a Doctor
If your symptoms persist despite trying self-help strategies, or if they are causing significant distress or affecting your relationship, it is advisable to seek medical advice. A healthcare professional can provide a thorough evaluation and discuss appropriate treatment options tailored to your specific situation.
In conclusion, premature ejaculation is a manageable condition, and there are various strategies you can employ to improve your sexual experience. Open communication with your partner, exploring behavioral techniques, and seeking professional help when necessary can lead to significant improvements. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men experience similar challenges.
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