Severe Headaches After Crying: Emotional Triggers - Family Medicine

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Hello Doctor, I would like to inquire about my girlfriend's condition.
She is 26 years old and generally healthy, but after we have arguments and her emotions become very intense, she experiences severe headaches.
The pain is so intense that she sometimes hits her own head or even bangs it against the wall.
She hopes to alleviate the pain, but she also starts to respond very slowly; when I call her, it seems like she can't hear me and doesn't react.
I would like to know if this situation indicates a medical issue or if it is simply due to extreme emotional fluctuations.
If it is a medical concern, which specialty should we consult and what kind of tests should be done? Thank you, Doctor.

uy, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2013/01/04

Dr. Chen Bozhang reply Family Medicine


It is recommended to adjust your daily routine and engage in appropriate exercise.
If necessary, you may first consult a family medicine physician, who can provide an evaluation and professional judgment before offering relevant advice and treatment.

Reply Date: 2013/01/04

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Severe headaches following emotional distress, such as crying or intense arguments, can be quite concerning and may indicate a few underlying issues. In your girlfriend's case, it seems that her headaches are triggered by emotional upheaval, which can be categorized as a form of tension-type headache or even a migraine.
Tension-type headaches are often associated with stress, anxiety, and emotional turmoil. They can manifest as a dull, aching sensation all over the head, and may be accompanied by muscle tightness in the neck and shoulders. In contrast, migraines can be more severe and may include symptoms such as nausea, sensitivity to light and sound, and can sometimes be triggered by emotional stress. The fact that your girlfriend experiences such intense pain that she feels the need to hit her head or bang it against a wall is particularly alarming and suggests that the headache may be severe, possibly resembling a migraine attack.

The symptoms you describe, such as her becoming unresponsive and slow to react, could be indicative of a more serious condition, especially if they occur frequently or are accompanied by other neurological symptoms. It is essential to differentiate between a primary headache disorder (like tension-type headaches or migraines) and secondary headaches, which may be caused by other medical conditions, such as intracranial pressure changes or vascular issues.

Given the severity of her symptoms, it would be prudent for her to consult a healthcare professional. Ideally, she should see a neurologist, who specializes in headaches and other neurological disorders. During the consultation, the neurologist will likely perform a thorough medical history and physical examination, and may recommend imaging studies such as an MRI or CT scan to rule out any structural issues in the brain, especially if there are concerning symptoms like confusion or loss of consciousness.

In addition to medical evaluation, it may also be beneficial for her to explore psychological support. Emotional triggers can significantly impact physical health, and therapy could provide her with coping strategies to manage her emotional responses more effectively. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for individuals who experience stress-related headaches, as it helps in altering negative thought patterns and developing healthier responses to stress.

Lifestyle modifications can also play a crucial role in managing headaches. Encouraging her to maintain a regular sleep schedule, stay hydrated, practice relaxation techniques such as mindfulness or yoga, and engage in regular physical activity can help reduce the frequency and severity of headaches. Additionally, identifying and avoiding specific triggers, whether they are emotional or environmental, can be beneficial.

In summary, while your girlfriend's headaches may be primarily related to emotional stress, the intensity and accompanying symptoms warrant a professional evaluation to rule out any serious underlying conditions. A neurologist would be the appropriate specialist to consult, and they may recommend further tests or treatments based on her specific situation. Meanwhile, encouraging her to adopt stress management techniques and maintain a healthy lifestyle can also contribute positively to her overall well-being.

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