What should I do?
Hello Dr.
Lin, since I moved to my new dormitory, I have been experiencing insomnia, which has lasted for almost a month.
I am studying nursing and have tried various methods such as meditation, progressive muscle relaxation, counting sheep, and drinking milk, but none have improved my insomnia.
A classmate mentioned that it might be due to the change in environment or difficulty adjusting to the new bed, but I usually adapt well and this is not my first time living with classmates.
The insomnia has persisted for about a month now, and I have been feeling a significant lack of energy, lack of motivation, irritability, and even suicidal thoughts.
I am a perfectionist and always strive to do my best; I really want to study well, but due to my insomnia, I find it hard to comprehend what I read, and my exam results have not been satisfactory.
I hope to maintain a position in the top ten of my class, and this pressure has been constantly bothering me.
A few days ago, I barely fell asleep until 2-3 AM, and last night I desperately asked a classmate for Valium.
After taking the medication, I felt a heavy sensation the next day and didn't feel well-rested, which made me even more upset.
What should I do?
Liang Jialing, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2001/06/29
Dr. Lin Yanhong reply Psychiatry
Hello, Jialing: I apologize for the delay in responding, as I have been in the United States for a month and just recently got internet access.
I can only now address your concerns regarding your insomnia.
Based on your description, it is difficult to fully understand the underlying cause of your insomnia.
However, experiencing sleep issues every day for a month likely indicates a diagnosis of a sleep disorder.
If you have already tried various sleep hygiene principles without success, it would be best to consult a physician for discussion and potential pharmacological treatment for a period of time.
Please avoid self-prescribing medications, as this can lead to dependency issues.
Additionally, it seems you are experiencing emotional problems related to your insomnia, so it is important to address and manage these appropriately.
Wishing you better sleep after seeing a doctor.
Reply Date: 2001/06/29
More Info
Hello, I understand that you are experiencing significant challenges with insomnia and mental health, particularly after moving to a new dormitory. It’s important to recognize that sleep disturbances can often be linked to various factors, including environmental changes, stress, and underlying mental health issues. Your situation is not uncommon, especially among students who face academic pressures and life transitions.
Firstly, it’s commendable that you’ve tried various relaxation techniques such as meditation, progressive muscle relaxation, and even drinking warm milk. However, if these methods have not yielded results, it may be time to explore additional strategies or seek professional help. The fact that you are experiencing feelings of helplessness, irritability, and even suicidal thoughts is concerning and should be addressed promptly.
1. Understanding Insomnia: Insomnia can be classified into two types: primary and secondary. Primary insomnia is not directly associated with any other health condition, while secondary insomnia is a symptom of another issue, such as anxiety, depression, or stress. Given your academic pressures and the recent changes in your living environment, it’s possible that your insomnia is secondary to these stressors.
2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I): This is a highly effective treatment for insomnia that focuses on changing thoughts and behaviors that contribute to sleep problems. CBT-I can help you develop better sleep habits, address negative thoughts about sleep, and create a more conducive sleep environment. It may be beneficial to seek a therapist who specializes in this area.
3. Medication: While you mentioned taking Valium, it’s crucial to approach medication with caution. Benzodiazepines can be effective for short-term relief but may lead to dependency and do not address the underlying issues. If you feel that medication is necessary, consult a healthcare professional who can provide guidance on safer alternatives, such as non-benzodiazepine sleep aids or antidepressants that can help with both sleep and mood.
4. Lifestyle Modifications: Consider implementing a consistent sleep schedule, where you go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends. Create a relaxing bedtime routine that signals to your body that it’s time to wind down. Limit exposure to screens before bed, as blue light can interfere with melatonin production. Additionally, ensure your sleeping environment is comfortable, dark, and quiet.
5. Stress Management: Since you mentioned being a perfectionist and feeling pressure to maintain high academic performance, it’s essential to find ways to manage stress. This could include setting realistic goals, breaking tasks into smaller, manageable steps, and allowing yourself to take breaks. Engaging in physical activity, whether through exercise or simply walking, can also help alleviate stress and improve mood.
6. Seeking Professional Help: Given the severity of your symptoms, including suicidal thoughts, it’s crucial to reach out to a mental health professional. They can provide a comprehensive assessment and develop a tailored treatment plan that may include therapy, medication, or a combination of both. If you ever feel overwhelmed or in crisis, don’t hesitate to contact a crisis hotline or seek immediate help.
In conclusion, while insomnia can be a challenging issue, especially in the context of academic pressures and life changes, there are effective strategies and treatments available. It’s important to prioritize your mental health and seek the support you need. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are resources and professionals ready to help you navigate these difficulties. Take care of yourself, and I wish you the best on your journey to better sleep and mental well-being.
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