Is this premature ejaculation?
I find it very easy to ejaculate, whether during oral sex or when I masturbate; it doesn't take long before I can't hold back.
Is this premature ejaculation? What can I do to improve this? Does having a full bladder make it easier for me to ejaculate?
Mr. Yan, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2014/03/24
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Mr.
Yan: Hello, have you experienced ejaculation? If you are just looking to ejaculate, that is normal.
A full bladder can trigger an erection.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Answers found online should only be used as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical attention at a healthcare facility.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department, Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare.
Reply Date: 2014/03/24
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men at some point in their lives. It is characterized by the inability to delay ejaculation during sexual activity, leading to distress for both the individual and their partner. Understanding the causes and potential solutions for premature ejaculation can help in managing this condition effectively.
Causes of Premature Ejaculation
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and performance pressure can significantly contribute to premature ejaculation. Many men may feel anxious about sexual performance, which can lead to a cycle of premature ejaculation.
2. Biological Factors: Certain biological factors, such as hormonal imbalances, neurotransmitter levels, and genetic predispositions, can play a role in PE. For instance, an imbalance in serotonin levels in the brain may lead to quicker ejaculation.
3. Medical Conditions: Conditions such as prostatitis or other infections can lead to PE. Additionally, some men may experience PE as a side effect of certain medications.
4. Lifestyle Factors: Excessive alcohol consumption, smoking, and lack of physical fitness can also contribute to sexual dysfunction, including PE.
5. Urinary Urgency: As you mentioned, feeling the need to urinate can sometimes exacerbate the urge to ejaculate. This is because the pelvic floor muscles are involved in both urination and ejaculation, and the sensation of urgency can heighten sexual arousal.
Solutions and Management Strategies
1. Behavioral Techniques:
- Start-Stop Technique: This involves stimulating the penis until you feel close to ejaculation, then stopping until the urge decreases. This can help you gain better control over your ejaculation.
- Squeeze Technique: Similar to the start-stop method, this involves squeezing the base of the penis when you feel close to ejaculation to help delay it.
2. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises can improve control over ejaculation. These exercises involve tightening and relaxing the muscles that control urination.
3. Desensitizing Products: Over-the-counter creams or sprays that contain numbing agents can reduce sensitivity and help delay ejaculation. However, it's essential to use these products cautiously and follow the instructions.
4. Counseling and Therapy: If anxiety or psychological factors are contributing to PE, speaking with a therapist or counselor can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective in addressing performance anxiety.
5. Medication: In some cases, doctors may prescribe medications such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or topical anesthetics to help manage premature ejaculation. These medications can help increase the time it takes to ejaculate.
6. Lifestyle Changes: Reducing alcohol intake, quitting smoking, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle through regular exercise can improve overall sexual health and potentially reduce episodes of PE.
7. Communication with Partner: Open communication with your partner about your concerns and experiences can help alleviate anxiety and create a more supportive environment for both partners.
Conclusion
Premature ejaculation is a manageable condition, and many men experience it at some point in their lives. Understanding the underlying causes and exploring various treatment options can lead to significant improvements. If you find that PE is affecting your quality of life or relationships, consider consulting a healthcare professional for personalized advice and treatment options. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are effective strategies available to help you regain control over your sexual health.
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