Seeking Help: Addressing Concerns About Masturbation and Women's Health - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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I want to find a doctor for help..?


I feel very helpless...
I have been unable to stop masturbating since I was 3 years old.
I can only seek help and hope to get the correct answers.

Question 1: If I use ointments indiscriminately to achieve orgasm, is there a possibility of contracting HIV?
Question 2: I read online that during masturbation, the pelvic area becomes engorged, and if done too frequently, it can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease.
Is this true? If so, how should I tell my doctor that I need help?
Question 3: Can many years of masturbation lead to heart-related diseases (for example, low blood pressure)?

Qiaokeli Tiantianquan, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/07/10

Dr. Lin Wenbin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Do you remember the situation at three years old? It's a bit unbelievable.
HIV is transmitted from infected individuals and is unrelated to the use of ointments or masturbation to achieve orgasm, which may actually help alleviate pelvic congestion.
However, excessive frequency can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease.
Seeking medical attention means clearly communicating your condition to the physician, so they can assist you effectively.
It's still important for the physician to examine your physical condition; if there are heart issues, even if it's not related to masturbation, it could exacerbate the heart condition.

Reply Date: 2015/07/10

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When it comes to addressing concerns about masturbation and women's health, it's important to approach the topic with sensitivity and an understanding of both the physiological and psychological aspects involved. Let's break down your questions one by one.

Question 1: Can using ointments to achieve orgasm lead to HIV infection?
The risk of contracting HIV through the use of topical ointments is generally low, provided that the ointments are not contaminated and are used in a safe manner. HIV is primarily transmitted through direct contact with infected bodily fluids, such as blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk. If the ointment is applied externally and does not involve any exchange of bodily fluids with an infected person, the risk of HIV transmission is negligible. However, if the ointment is shared or used in a manner that could introduce bodily fluids, the risk could increase. Always ensure that any products used are safe, non-irritating, and intended for the purpose you are using them for.

Question 2: Is it true that frequent masturbation can lead to pelvic inflammatory disease (PID)?
Pelvic inflammatory disease is typically caused by sexually transmitted infections (STIs) that ascend from the vagina to the reproductive organs. While masturbation itself does not directly cause PID, excessive or aggressive masturbation could potentially lead to irritation or infection if proper hygiene is not maintained. The idea that pelvic congestion occurs during orgasm is true; however, this is a normal physiological response and does not inherently lead to inflammation or disease. If you are experiencing pain or discomfort in the pelvic area, it is advisable to consult a healthcare provider. When discussing this with your doctor, you can simply express your concerns about pelvic pain and ask if it could be related to your masturbation habits.

Question 3: Can years of masturbation lead to heart-related diseases, such as low blood pressure?
There is no scientific evidence to suggest that masturbation causes heart disease or low blood pressure. Masturbation is a normal sexual activity and, for most people, does not pose any health risks when practiced in moderation. In fact, some studies suggest that regular sexual activity, including masturbation, can have health benefits, such as reducing stress and improving mood. However, if you are experiencing symptoms like low blood pressure or other cardiovascular issues, it is essential to consult a healthcare professional to explore the underlying causes, which may not be related to masturbation at all.

Additional Considerations:
If you find that your masturbation habits are interfering with your daily life, relationships, or mental health, it may be beneficial to speak with a mental health professional. They can help you explore the reasons behind your behavior and provide strategies for managing it in a healthy way.
In summary, masturbation is a common and generally healthy activity. However, if you have specific concerns about your health or habits, seeking advice from a qualified healthcare provider is the best course of action. They can provide personalized guidance based on your individual circumstances and health history. Remember, open communication with your healthcare provider is key to addressing any health concerns you may have.

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