Uncommon Labia Shapes and Concerns in Women's Health

Genital issues

I feel that my labia minora look very strange, as they seem different from those of other women.
The two sides of others' labia minora are usually similar in size, but one of mine is quite large and thick.
Additionally, both my labia majora and labia minora are dark, which might be related to my being a bit overweight.
Due to frequent friction, I am unsure if the darker coloration of my genitalia is related to masturbation.
Since starting my master's program, I have been masturbating almost once a day, whereas I did it very rarely during my junior and senior years because I was still single at that age.
I also have a strong desire for children, which makes me feel like I want to have a sexual relationship.
I am hesitant to insert my hand into my vagina because I fear that if I do, I will no longer be a virgin.
Although many boys are no longer virgins, I find this unfair, and I do not want to engage in casual encounters.
Recently, while observing my vagina during masturbation, I couldn't locate my vaginal opening; I only noticed fluid flowing out.
I think that boys might not understand this and simply insert themselves when they see the fluid.
I am unsure if I experience orgasm; I only know that towards the end of masturbation, fluid flows from my urethra, and I cannot tell if it is urine or another type of fluid.
If I want to lighten the color of my genitalia, can I just use products available on the market?

Hong Shi Jing, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/08/16

Dr. Lü Lizheng reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

1.
The size and color of the labia can vary greatly among individuals, and it is not necessary for both sides to be the same size.
2.
It is not related to masturbation.
3.
Masturbation can indeed increase the secretion of fluids in the vulva and vagina.
4.
To my knowledge, there are no products available that can whiten the labia.
Sincerely, Dr.
Li-Cheng Lu, Taoyuan Hospital.

Reply Date: 2015/08/16

More Info

When it comes to concerns about the appearance and health of the labia, it's important to understand that there is a wide range of normal when it comes to female genital anatomy. Variations in size, shape, and color of the labia are completely normal and can be influenced by a variety of factors, including genetics, hormonal changes, and even body weight.

Firstly, regarding the asymmetry you mentioned, it is quite common for women to have labia that are not identical in size or shape. Many women experience some degree of asymmetry, and this is perfectly normal. The labia minora (the inner lips) can vary significantly in size, thickness, and color from one woman to another. If one side appears larger or thicker, it may simply be a natural variation.
As for the pigmentation of the labia, darker coloration can occur due to several reasons, including hormonal changes, increased blood flow, and friction. Weight gain can also contribute to changes in skin pigmentation due to friction and hormonal factors. It’s important to note that these changes are typically benign and not a cause for concern.
You mentioned concerns about friction and potential irritation. If you are experiencing discomfort due to friction, it may be helpful to consider wearing looser-fitting clothing or using lubricants during activities that may cause irritation. If the discomfort persists, consulting with a healthcare provider can help identify any underlying issues.

Regarding your questions about masturbation and its effects, it is a normal and healthy part of human sexuality. Masturbation does not inherently change the anatomy of the vagina or labia, nor does it affect virginity in the way you might be concerned about. Virginity is a social construct and is often defined differently across cultures. Engaging in masturbation is a personal choice and can be a way to explore your body and understand your sexual responses better.

If you are experiencing fluid release during masturbation, it is likely a combination of vaginal lubrication and possibly some urine. The female body can produce various fluids during sexual arousal, and it is normal for these fluids to be released during masturbation or sexual activity. If you are unsure about what you are experiencing, it may be beneficial to discuss this with a healthcare provider who can provide clarity.

Regarding the desire to lighten the skin of your labia, it is crucial to approach this with caution. Many products marketed for skin lightening can be harsh and may cause irritation or allergic reactions. It is advisable to consult with a dermatologist or a gynecologist before using any such products, as they can recommend safe and effective options tailored to your needs.

In conclusion, the variations in labia shape, size, and color are normal and do not typically indicate any health issues. If you have ongoing concerns about discomfort, appearance, or any other symptoms, it is always best to consult with a healthcare professional who can provide personalized advice and reassurance. Remember, your body is unique, and understanding it is a part of embracing your health and well-being.

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