Sexual Activity for Genital Herpes Patients: What You Need to Know - Urology

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Dear Doctor, can genital herpes patients engage in sexual activity during asymptomatic periods (when they are in a normal state)? Or will they have to use condoms for life (which would make having children seem hopeless)? Additionally, if the IgG and IgM test results are at a certain low level, can this be considered a reference for unprotected sexual activity?

Tiāntiān, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/11/24

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


Hello, regarding herpes, more than half of the population in Taiwan are carriers, meaning the virus is latent.
If there are no lesions, sexual activity is not a concern.
Blood tests only reflect the immune system's response to the herpes virus and are not definitively related to transmissibility; in other words, having IgG and IgM does not necessarily mean transmission will occur.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again for further discussion and research.
Online responses should only serve as a reference; if necessary, it is still important to seek medical care at a healthcare facility.
The Ministry of Health and Welfare Taitung Hospital cares about you.

Reply Date: 2015/11/24

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When it comes to managing sexual activity for patients with genital herpes, it is crucial to understand the nature of the virus and how it can affect sexual relationships. Genital herpes is caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV), primarily HSV-2, and is characterized by outbreaks of painful sores in the genital area. However, the virus can also be transmitted even when no symptoms are present, a phenomenon known as asymptomatic shedding.


Sexual Activity During Asymptomatic Periods
1. Engaging in Sexual Activity: Yes, individuals with genital herpes can engage in sexual activity during asymptomatic periods. However, it is essential to take precautions to minimize the risk of transmission to partners. The use of condoms is highly recommended, as they can significantly reduce the risk of spreading the virus, although they do not eliminate it entirely. This is because herpes can be present on skin areas not covered by a condom.

2. Long-term Relationships: For those in long-term relationships, open communication with partners about the condition is vital. Discussing the risks and establishing mutual understanding can help in navigating sexual activity. Many couples find ways to maintain intimacy while managing the risks associated with herpes.

3. Contraception and Family Planning: Regarding the concern about having children, individuals with genital herpes can still conceive. While the virus can be transmitted during childbirth, precautions can be taken to protect the baby. If a woman has an active outbreak during labor, a cesarean section is often recommended to prevent transmission. Therefore, having genital herpes does not mean that having children is impossible, but it does require careful planning and consultation with healthcare providers.


Testing and Risk Assessment
1. Understanding IgG and IgM Tests: The IgG and IgM tests are blood tests used to determine if someone has been exposed to the herpes virus. IgM antibodies typically indicate a recent infection, while IgG antibodies suggest a past infection. If the IgG levels are low, it may indicate that the person has not been infected for long, but it does not guarantee that they are free from the virus. Therefore, relying solely on these tests to determine whether to engage in unprotected sex is not advisable.

2. Risk of Transmission: Even with low IgG levels, the risk of transmission exists. It is important to remember that herpes can be transmitted even when there are no visible symptoms. Therefore, the safest approach is to use protection, especially if the partner is unaware of their herpes status.


Recommendations for Sexual Activity
- Use Protection: Always use condoms or dental dams during sexual activity to reduce the risk of transmission.

- Communicate with Partners: Be open about your herpes status with sexual partners to ensure informed consent and mutual understanding.

- Consult Healthcare Providers: Regular check-ups with a healthcare provider can help manage the condition and provide guidance on safe sexual practices.

- Consider Antiviral Medication: Taking antiviral medications can reduce the frequency of outbreaks and lower the risk of transmission to partners.

In conclusion, while individuals with genital herpes can have a fulfilling sexual life, it is essential to take precautions and communicate openly with partners. Engaging in safe sexual practices, understanding the nature of the virus, and consulting with healthcare professionals can help manage the condition effectively while maintaining intimacy.

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