Is the Baby Mine? Paternity After Conception - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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I have a friend whose girlfriend got pregnant.
They only meet about once a month.
He had sexual intercourse with her on October 19 and 20, during which he ejaculated inside her.
On November 20, she said she was about 6 weeks pregnant.
He wants to know if this child is his and if there is a possibility that it is not.
Thank you.

Nìmíng, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/12/01

Dr. Lin Wenbin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


It is possible.
Only DNA testing can confirm.

Reply Date: 2015/12/01

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Determining paternity can be a complex issue, especially when there are multiple factors at play, such as timing of intercourse, menstrual cycles, and the possibility of other sexual partners. In your friend's case, there are several key points to consider regarding the likelihood of him being the biological father of the child.

1. Timing of Intercourse and Ovulation: The menstrual cycle typically lasts between 28 to 32 days, with ovulation occurring approximately 14 days before the next expected period. If your friend had intercourse with his girlfriend on October 19 and 20, and she reported being about six weeks pregnant on November 20, it is essential to consider when she would have likely ovulated. If her cycle is regular and she ovulated around the time of intercourse, there is a higher chance that your friend is the father. However, if she ovulated earlier or later than expected, or if she had sexual encounters with other partners around that time, the paternity could be in question.

2. Sperm Viability: Sperm can live inside a woman's reproductive tract for up to five days. This means that if your friend had intercourse on October 19 or 20, the sperm could still be viable if ovulation occurred shortly after those dates. Conversely, if she ovulated before their encounter, the sperm from another partner could also be a factor.

3. Confirmation of Pregnancy: The pregnancy test typically detects the hormone hCG, which is produced shortly after a fertilized egg implants in the uterus. If your friend's girlfriend took a pregnancy test around November 20 and it was positive, it indicates that she is indeed pregnant. However, the exact timing of conception can be difficult to pinpoint without further information.

4. Paternity Testing: The most definitive way to determine paternity is through DNA testing. This can be done after the baby is born, and it involves collecting DNA samples from the child, the mother, and the potential father. This test is highly accurate and can provide conclusive evidence regarding paternity.

5. Emotional and Legal Considerations: Beyond the biological aspects, there are emotional and legal implications to consider. If your friend is concerned about the paternity of the child, it may be beneficial for him to have an open and honest conversation with his girlfriend. Understanding their relationship dynamics and discussing the potential for co-parenting or other arrangements can be crucial.

In conclusion, while there are many factors that can influence the likelihood of your friend being the biological father, the only way to know for sure is through a paternity test. If he has concerns, he should consider discussing this with his girlfriend and possibly seeking legal advice to understand his rights and responsibilities moving forward.

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