Living is exhausting?
Hello Doctor, I still have some vaccinations that I haven't completed.
Please take a look at them, thank you.
I need a family member to accompany me even to get a haircut, and I only dare to go to the convenience store around midnight.
I hardly go out at other times.
Also, Doctor, you are here responding to me, but when you tell me to see a doctor, I really can't go alone.
I feel scared and anxious, so I really need a family member to accompany me.
Is there a way to contact you directly? Because I also live in the Changhua area.
Yu Ren, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/01/16
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello, Yu Ren; you can come to the outpatient clinic during the scheduled hours.
It is actually better to have a family member accompany you for the visit, as it helps them understand how to assist you better.
Over time, feeling anxious and fearful about going out is inevitable, but if you have a strong motivation to improve, it is possible to find the courage to gradually overcome these fears and worries.
Asking these questions actually shows that you are eager to change, and this motivation can provide us with the strength to overcome resistance.
Wishing you all the best.
Reply Date: 2016/01/16
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It sounds like you are experiencing significant anxiety that is affecting your daily life and ability to function independently. Your feelings of fear and nervousness, especially when it comes to leaving your home or going out alone, are common symptoms of anxiety disorders. It's important to acknowledge that seeking help is a courageous step, and you're not alone in this struggle.
Anxiety can manifest in various ways, including social anxiety, generalized anxiety disorder, and panic disorder, among others. The symptoms you describe, such as needing family support to go out and feeling overwhelmed by the thought of visiting a doctor alone, suggest that your anxiety may be impacting your ability to engage in everyday activities. This can lead to a cycle where avoidance reinforces your anxiety, making it even harder to confront those fears.
Here are some strategies that may help you manage your anxiety and work towards feeling more comfortable in your daily life:
1. Gradual Exposure: Start with small steps to gradually expose yourself to the situations that cause anxiety. For example, if going to a convenience store is challenging, you might begin by standing outside the store for a few minutes before going in. Over time, you can increase your exposure until you feel more comfortable.
2. Breathing Techniques: Practice deep breathing exercises to help calm your mind and body when you start to feel anxious. Techniques such as diaphragmatic breathing or the 4-7-8 method can be effective in reducing anxiety symptoms.
3. Mindfulness and Relaxation: Engaging in mindfulness practices, such as meditation or yoga, can help you stay grounded and reduce anxiety. These practices encourage you to focus on the present moment and can help alleviate feelings of panic or worry.
4. Support System: Continue to lean on your family and friends for support. Let them know how you’re feeling and that their presence helps you feel more secure. You might also consider joining a support group where you can connect with others who understand what you’re going through.
5. Professional Help: While you mentioned having difficulty going to see a doctor alone, it’s crucial to seek professional help. Consider asking a family member or friend to accompany you to your appointments. A mental health professional can provide you with coping strategies tailored to your specific needs and may recommend therapy or medication if necessary.
6. Telehealth Options: If visiting a doctor in person feels too overwhelming, look into telehealth services. Many mental health professionals offer virtual appointments, allowing you to speak with a therapist or psychiatrist from the comfort of your home.
7. Journaling: Keeping a journal can help you process your thoughts and feelings. Writing about your experiences can provide insight into your anxiety triggers and help you identify patterns in your behavior.
8. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Regular physical activity, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can significantly impact your mental health. Engaging in exercise releases endorphins, which can improve your mood and reduce anxiety.
9. Educate Yourself: Understanding anxiety and its effects can empower you. There are many resources available, including books, articles, and online courses, that can provide valuable information about managing anxiety.
10. Emergency Contacts: If you ever feel overwhelmed or in crisis, have a list of emergency contacts, including friends, family, or mental health professionals, that you can reach out to for immediate support.
Remember, overcoming anxiety is a process that takes time and patience. It’s okay to seek help and take small steps towards feeling better. You deserve support and care as you navigate these challenges. If you’re looking for a specific mental health professional in your area, consider reaching out to local clinics or hospitals that may have resources available.
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