Experiencing erectile dysfunction during intercourse?
Hello Dr.
Hsu: When I have intercourse with my girlfriend, I notice that halfway through, my penis becomes less rigid.
Eventually, it becomes difficult to continue because I can't pull out, but my penis is soft.
How can I improve this situation? Thank you.
Xiao Lin, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/02/22
Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology
Xiao Lin: Hello, possible conditions include: 1.
Inability to maintain stimulation 2.
Erectile dysfunction, which may be related to neurological, vascular, or psychological factors, as well as a lack of regular exercise, leading to insufficient cardiac output to sustain an erection.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again for further discussion and research.
Answers found online should only serve as a reference; if necessary, it is important to seek medical attention at a healthcare facility.
This response is provided by Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department at Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare.
Reply Date: 2016/02/22
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) during intercourse is a common issue that many men experience at some point in their lives. It can be caused by a variety of factors, including psychological, physical, and relational issues. Here are some expert tips and insights on how to address erectile issues during intercourse.
Understanding the Causes
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and depression can significantly impact sexual performance. Performance anxiety, in particular, can create a cycle of fear and tension that makes it difficult to maintain an erection.
2. Physical Factors: Conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, cardiovascular diseases, and hormonal imbalances can affect blood flow and nerve function, leading to erectile difficulties. Lifestyle factors like smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, and lack of physical activity can also contribute.
3. Relational Factors: Relationship issues, lack of intimacy, or unresolved conflicts with a partner can lead to difficulties in sexual performance.
Tips for Improvement
1. Open Communication: Talk openly with your partner about your experiences and feelings. This can help reduce anxiety and create a supportive environment. Understanding that this is a common issue can alleviate pressure.
2. Consult a Healthcare Professional: If the problem persists, it’s essential to consult a healthcare provider. They can help identify any underlying medical conditions and recommend appropriate treatments. This may include medications such as phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis) that can enhance blood flow to the penis.
3. Lifestyle Changes: Adopting a healthier lifestyle can improve erectile function. This includes:
- Regular Exercise: Physical activity can improve circulation and reduce stress.
- Healthy Diet: A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can promote overall health and improve blood flow.
- Limit Alcohol and Quit Smoking: Reducing alcohol intake and quitting smoking can significantly improve erectile function.
4. Manage Stress and Anxiety: Techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, and deep-breathing exercises can help manage stress and anxiety levels. Consider seeking therapy or counseling if psychological factors are contributing to the issue.
5. Explore Different Techniques: Sometimes, changing the sexual routine can help. Experimenting with different positions, techniques, or even incorporating foreplay can enhance arousal and reduce performance pressure.
6. Consider Medical Treatments: If lifestyle changes and counseling do not help, there are medical options available. In addition to oral medications, other treatments include vacuum erection devices, penile injections, or even surgical options in severe cases.
7. Educate Yourself: Understanding sexual health and the mechanics of arousal can help demystify the process and reduce anxiety. Knowledge can empower you to take control of your sexual health.
When to Seek Help
If erectile issues persist for more than a few weeks or are causing significant distress, it’s crucial to seek professional help. A healthcare provider can conduct a thorough evaluation, including physical exams and possibly blood tests, to determine any underlying conditions that may be contributing to ED.
Conclusion
Erectile dysfunction during intercourse can be a challenging experience, but it is important to remember that it is a common issue that can often be addressed with the right strategies and support. Open communication with your partner, lifestyle changes, and professional guidance can significantly improve the situation. Don’t hesitate to reach out for help; addressing the issue early can lead to better outcomes and improved sexual health.
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