Stocking fetishism, pantyhose fetishism?
I have a strong attraction to stockings and tights, often using them for masturbation, and I even fantasize about having sexual encounters with women wearing stockings and tights.
Is this considered a mental illness? I already have moderate chronic mental illness, and my attraction to skin-colored tights is more severe.
Does this indicate that I am unable to let go psychologically? I seek a doctor's explanation.
Thank you.
A Dong, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/03/07
Dr. Ding Shuyan reply Psychiatry
Hello, do not steal from others, do not harm others, do not spend too much money on purchases, and do not waste too much time on these matters.
Close the door and express your desires privately; others cannot interfere.
If you think deeply, you can observe in what situations or under what pressures your impulses increase, and then appropriately manage that stress by developing other interests that benefit your mental and physical health.
People have many facets; if you find it difficult to change this aspect of yourself and feel it is inappropriate, then engage more in other positive behaviors, such as helping others and enhancing your positive traits, which can also have a subtle influence.
Sometimes, directly suppressing or combating such habits can inadvertently strengthen the persistence of these behaviors.
Gently redirecting your attention; try it and see if it helps.
Wishing you all the best.
Dr.
Ding Shuo-Yan.
Reply Date: 2016/03/07
More Info
Hosiery fetishism, which involves a strong attraction to stockings, tights, or similar garments, is classified as a type of sexual fetish. It is important to understand that having a fetish in itself is not inherently a mental health concern. Fetishes are relatively common and can be part of a person's sexual identity. However, the distinction between a benign fetish and a problematic one often lies in the impact it has on an individual's life and relationships.
In your case, you mentioned that you have a moderate chronic mental illness, which adds a layer of complexity to your situation. It’s essential to consider how your fetish interacts with your mental health. If your attraction to hosiery is causing distress, interfering with your daily functioning, or negatively impacting your relationships, it may be worth exploring further with a mental health professional.
Fetishes can develop for various reasons, including psychological conditioning, personal experiences, or even biological factors. They are often rooted in the brain's reward system, where certain stimuli become associated with pleasure. In your case, the strong attraction to hosiery could be linked to past experiences or emotional connections that have formed over time.
It's also worth noting that many individuals with fetishes lead healthy, fulfilling lives without any significant issues. The key factor is whether the fetish is consensual, safe, and does not harm yourself or others. If your fantasies and behaviors are consensual and do not lead to distress or dysfunction, they may simply be a part of your sexual expression.
However, since you mentioned having a chronic mental illness, it is crucial to assess how this fetish fits into your overall mental health. If you find that your thoughts about hosiery are obsessive, lead to compulsive behaviors, or cause significant anxiety or distress, it may be beneficial to discuss these feelings with a mental health professional. They can help you explore the underlying issues and provide strategies to manage any distressing thoughts or behaviors.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is one approach that can be effective in addressing problematic thoughts and behaviors. It focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviors, which may help you gain a better understanding of your feelings towards hosiery and how they relate to your mental health.
In summary, hosiery fetishism is not inherently a mental health concern unless it leads to distress or dysfunction in your life. Given your history of chronic mental illness, it would be wise to consult with a mental health professional who can provide personalized guidance and support. They can help you navigate your feelings and behaviors in a way that promotes your overall well-being. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, and addressing these concerns can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling life.
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