How to address obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
Hello, doctor.
I am currently in the 9th grade, and I noticed that my behavior became very strange when I was in the 7th grade.
I often have persistent thoughts in my mind that compel me to do certain things, or else something bad will happen.
This has been troubling me for nearly three years, and I feel very distressed.
I often perform unnecessary checks (not due to forgetfulness) and have intrusive thoughts of insulting others, which have become even more severe.
I am in a lot of pain and find it hard to concentrate on my studies because of these thoughts.
I would like to ask how I can resolve these issues.
I have communicated with my mother about this, and she seems to be aware that I have obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), but she doesn't seem to be able to articulate it.
Last time, she inquired about our family's history of OCD under the guise of a family survey, and she said there was none.
I don't know what to do.
If I mention medication, she will likely refuse.
Are there any ways to address this issue? Besides medication, are there other treatment options available?
xiaoxue, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/03/15
Dr. Song Chengxian reply Psychiatry
Hello, if you are suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), I recommend that you ask your parents to take you to a pediatric mental health specialist or a child psychiatrist for a professional evaluation and to develop an appropriate treatment plan.
If you would like to learn more about OCD, you can refer to the book "Sisyphus is Also Crazy" published by Teacher Chang.
Sincerely, Dr.
Song.
Reply Date: 2016/03/15
More Info
Overcoming Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) can be particularly challenging for teens, especially when intrusive thoughts and compulsive behaviors interfere with daily life and academic performance. It's commendable that you are seeking help and looking for effective strategies to manage your symptoms. Here are some approaches that may help you navigate your struggles with OCD:
1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT is one of the most effective treatments for OCD. It involves working with a therapist to identify and challenge the irrational thoughts that fuel your compulsive behaviors. A specific type of CBT called Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is particularly beneficial for OCD. ERP involves gradually exposing yourself to the thoughts or situations that trigger your anxiety while refraining from performing the compulsive behaviors. Over time, this can help reduce the anxiety associated with those thoughts and decrease the urge to engage in compulsive actions.
2. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques
Practicing mindfulness can help you become more aware of your thoughts without reacting to them. Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can help you manage anxiety and improve your focus. Mindfulness encourages you to observe your thoughts without judgment, which can reduce the power they hold over you.
3. Support Groups and Peer Support
Connecting with others who understand what you're going through can be incredibly helpful. Consider joining a support group for teens with OCD. Sharing your experiences and hearing from others can provide comfort and practical strategies for coping. Online forums or local community groups can be good places to start.
4. Education and Awareness
Understanding OCD can empower you to manage your symptoms better. Learning about the nature of intrusive thoughts and the compulsions that follow can help you recognize that these thoughts are a symptom of the disorder, not a reflection of your character or intentions. This knowledge can reduce the shame and confusion often associated with OCD.
5. Family Involvement
Since you mentioned discussing your situation with your mother, it may be beneficial to involve her more in your treatment process. Family therapy can help educate your family about OCD and how they can support you. Open communication about your feelings and experiences can foster a supportive environment at home.
6. Medication
While you expressed concerns about medication, it is worth noting that many individuals with OCD benefit from selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), which can help reduce the severity of symptoms. If you are open to it, discussing medication options with a psychiatrist could be beneficial. It’s essential to have a healthcare professional guide you through this process, as they can monitor for side effects and adjust dosages as needed.
7. Developing Coping Strategies
Creating a list of coping strategies that work for you can be helpful. This might include engaging in hobbies, exercising, or practicing creative outlets like drawing or writing. Finding activities that bring you joy can serve as a distraction from intrusive thoughts and help improve your overall mood.
8. Setting Realistic Goals
Setting small, achievable goals can help you feel a sense of accomplishment and reduce feelings of being overwhelmed. Focus on one step at a time, whether it’s practicing a relaxation technique or gradually facing a fear related to your OCD.
Conclusion
It's important to remember that overcoming OCD is a process that takes time and effort. Seeking help from a mental health professional who specializes in OCD can provide you with tailored strategies and support. You are not alone in this journey, and there are effective ways to manage your symptoms and improve your quality of life. Keep advocating for yourself and exploring the options available to you.
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