How to Reduce Sensitivity of the Glans for Better Intimacy? - Urology

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I currently have a long foreskin.
I usually retract the foreskin past the coronal sulcus when walking around at home.
Will this help reduce sensitivity when I am intimate with my girlfriend? Are there any methods to decrease sensitivity of the glans? Also, when entering the vagina, does the excess skin remain on the glans or does it stay at the coronal sulcus?

zhēng lóng, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/05/07

Dr. Li Xinyi reply Urology


Desensitization? Is this thought influenced by comparisons with male adult film actors? Engaging in sexual activity is different from what is portrayed in adult films.
It's normal to experience heightened sensitivity at first, but as you grow older, you will gradually adjust and explore.
You might also consider asking your father for advice; being overly preoccupied with sexual matters can indicate a loss of balance in life.
Overall, this is definitely not ideal.
You are still young, and your puberty has just begun.
Both your physical and mental health are important, and transitioning into adulthood should be a smooth process.

Reply Date: 2016/05/07

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Reducing sensitivity of the glans (the head of the penis) can be a concern for many men, particularly those who experience heightened sensitivity during intimate moments. This sensitivity can sometimes lead to discomfort or difficulty in achieving satisfactory sexual experiences. Here are several strategies and considerations that may help you manage this sensitivity effectively.


1. Understanding Sensitivity and Anatomy
First, it's essential to understand that sensitivity can vary significantly among individuals. The glans is naturally sensitive due to a high concentration of nerve endings, which is normal. However, if you find that your sensitivity is excessive, it may be worth exploring ways to reduce it.
Regarding your question about the foreskin, if you have a longer foreskin, it can indeed cover the glans when flaccid or during penetration. When you pull back the foreskin, the glans is exposed, which can lead to increased sensitivity. During intercourse, if the foreskin is not retracted fully, it may slide over the glans, which can also affect sensitivity.


2. Desensitization Techniques
Several methods can help reduce sensitivity:
- Gradual Exposure: If you are comfortable, gradually exposing the glans to different stimuli can help desensitize it over time. This can include gentle rubbing or using different textures to acclimate the glans to stimulation.

- Topical Creams: There are over-the-counter creams and sprays designed to reduce sensitivity. These products often contain numbing agents like benzocaine or lidocaine. However, it’s crucial to consult with a healthcare provider before using these products to ensure they are safe and appropriate for your situation.

- Condom Use: Wearing a condom during intercourse can reduce sensitivity. Condoms provide a barrier that can dull sensation, making it easier to maintain control during intimate moments.


3. Physical Techniques
- Kegel Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises can help improve control during intercourse. This can lead to better management of sensitivity and potentially prolong the experience.

- Positioning: Experimenting with different sexual positions may help you find one that minimizes sensitivity. Some positions may allow for less direct stimulation of the glans.


4. Communication with Your Partner
Discussing your concerns with your partner can also be beneficial. Open communication can lead to a more comfortable and enjoyable experience for both of you. Your partner may have suggestions or be willing to adjust their approach to intimacy based on your comfort level.


5. Consulting a Healthcare Professional
If sensitivity continues to be a significant issue, it may be worthwhile to consult a urologist or a sexual health specialist. They can provide personalized advice and explore any underlying conditions that may be contributing to your sensitivity. In some cases, medical interventions such as circumcision may be discussed if the foreskin is excessively long and causing discomfort.


Conclusion
Managing sensitivity of the glans is a multifaceted approach that includes understanding your body, trying desensitization techniques, and communicating with your partner. Each individual’s experience is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. Therefore, it’s essential to be patient and explore different options to find what best suits your needs. If concerns persist, seeking professional advice can provide further insights and solutions tailored to your situation.

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