At one's discretion?
Recently, I had intercourse with my girlfriend for the first time.
During the first time, I was able to perform freely, but in the following encounters, it took me some time to achieve an erection.
Additionally, after about 5 minutes of changing positions, my erection wasn't firm enough, and I had to start over, which seems to leave my girlfriend unsatisfied.
I usually have a strong sex drive and often take care of myself.
A traditional Chinese medicine doctor previously suggested that I take "San Cai Feng Sui Wan." Dr.
Chen, could you help me with this issue? If necessary, I can visit your clinic in person.
merle, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2002/09/06
Dr. Chen Weili reply Traditional Chinese Medicine
Dear Mr.
Merle,
Generally speaking, San Cai Feng Sui Wan can help reduce heart fire, benefit kidney water, and replenish the deficiencies of the lungs, spleen, and kidneys.
It has considerable therapeutic effects on symptoms related to palpitations, diarrhea, nocturnal emissions, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and autonomic nervous system disorders.
However, before choosing medication, it may be worth considering that a successful partnership, much like a duet dance, requires cooperation and understanding from both sides.
This is certainly not as straightforward as solo performances, and the emotional and atmospheric aspects are quite important.
There are some reputable health websites that may be helpful for you.
If medication is absolutely necessary, you are welcome to visit the clinic.
I hope this information is beneficial to you.
Reply Date: 2002/09/06
More Info
Performance anxiety, particularly in the context of sexual activity, is a common issue that many individuals face. It can stem from various factors, including psychological stress, fear of inadequacy, or even physical health concerns. Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) offers several approaches that may help alleviate performance anxiety and improve sexual function.
One of the primary principles of TCM is the concept of balance within the body. TCM practitioners believe that sexual health is closely linked to the balance of Qi (vital energy), blood, and the health of the organs involved in sexual function, particularly the kidneys, heart, and liver. When there is an imbalance, it can manifest as performance anxiety or erectile dysfunction.
Herbal Remedies:
The herbal formulation you mentioned, "San Cai Feng Sui Wan" (三才封隨丸), is traditionally used to enhance sexual function and improve overall vitality. This formula may help in nourishing the kidney essence, which is believed to be crucial for sexual health in TCM. Additionally, other herbal formulas such as "Jing Gui Shen Qi Wan" (金匮肾气丸) and "Tian Wang Bu Xin Dan" (天王补心丹) may also be beneficial. These formulas aim to tonify the kidneys and nourish the heart, which can help reduce anxiety and improve sexual performance.
Acupuncture:
Acupuncture is another TCM modality that can be effective in treating performance anxiety. By inserting fine needles into specific points on the body, acupuncture can help regulate the flow of Qi, reduce stress, and promote relaxation. Points such as Shenmen (HT7), Spleen 6 (SP6), and Kidney 3 (KD3) are often targeted to help with anxiety and sexual health.
Lifestyle and Dietary Recommendations:
In addition to herbal remedies and acupuncture, TCM emphasizes the importance of lifestyle and dietary choices. Regular physical activity, adequate sleep, and stress management techniques such as meditation or tai chi can significantly impact your overall well-being and sexual health. A balanced diet that includes foods known to enhance sexual health, such as nuts, seeds, and certain fruits, can also be beneficial.
Psychological Support:
While TCM can provide physical and energetic support, addressing the psychological aspects of performance anxiety is equally important. Engaging in open communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns can help alleviate some of the pressure. Additionally, consulting with a mental health professional or a sex therapist may provide you with strategies to cope with anxiety and improve your sexual confidence.
Consultation with a TCM Practitioner:
If you are considering TCM as a treatment option, it is advisable to consult with a qualified TCM practitioner who can assess your individual condition and recommend a tailored treatment plan. They can provide guidance on the appropriate herbal formulas, acupuncture points, and lifestyle modifications that would be most effective for your specific situation.
In conclusion, overcoming performance anxiety through TCM involves a holistic approach that addresses both the physical and psychological aspects of the issue. By combining herbal remedies, acupuncture, lifestyle changes, and psychological support, you may find a path toward improved sexual health and reduced anxiety. Remember, it’s essential to communicate openly with your partner and seek professional guidance to ensure a comprehensive approach to your concerns.
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