Excessive masturbation leading to decreased sensitivity during sexual intercourse?
I am currently 18 years old and have been masturbating almost every day, sometimes twice, and up to four times a day.
During actual intercourse, I don't feel much sensation while using a condom, and I end up moving so much that my lower back hurts, and I even become flaccid.
I think this might be due to excessive masturbation leading to decreased sensitivity.
I would like to ask the doctor how long I should stop masturbating or how I should adjust my masturbation frequency to return to normal.
Wen Tong, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/09/13
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello: Your frequency of masturbation is indeed quite high.
It is recommended to reduce the frequency (for example, from twice a day to once a day or once every two days).
If the symptoms persist, you may consider visiting a urology clinic for further evaluation.
Additionally, I suggest engaging in more outdoor activities to help release excess energy.
Reply Date: 2016/09/13
More Info
Excessive masturbation can indeed have an impact on sexual sensitivity and overall sexual function. At 18 years old, it’s not uncommon to explore one’s sexuality, and masturbation is a normal part of that exploration. However, when it becomes excessive—such as multiple times a day—it can lead to a few potential issues, including decreased sensitivity during sexual intercourse.
Understanding the Impact of Excessive Masturbation
1. Desensitization: Frequent masturbation, especially if done in a specific way (like a tight grip or certain techniques), can lead to desensitization of the penis. This means that during sexual intercourse, the sensations may not be as intense, leading to difficulties in achieving orgasm or maintaining an erection.
2. Psychological Factors: The mental aspect of sexual arousal plays a significant role. If you become accustomed to the immediate gratification of masturbation, you may find it challenging to achieve the same level of arousal during partnered sex. This can create a psychological barrier, leading to anxiety or performance issues.
3. Physical Fatigue: Engaging in sexual activity too frequently can lead to physical fatigue. If you’re experiencing soreness or discomfort, it may be a sign that your body needs a break to recover.
Recommendations for Adjusting Masturbation Frequency
1. Take a Break: Consider taking a break from masturbation for a period of time—perhaps a week or two. This can help reset your sensitivity levels and allow your body to recover.
2. Moderation: After your break, try to establish a more moderate frequency. For many, this might mean masturbating a few times a week rather than daily. Listen to your body and adjust based on how you feel.
3. Variety in Techniques: If you continue to masturbate, try varying your techniques. This can help prevent desensitization. Experiment with different grips, speeds, and even positions to see what feels best.
4. Focus on Foreplay: When engaging in sexual activity with a partner, focus on foreplay. This can enhance arousal and sensitivity, making the experience more pleasurable.
5. Mindfulness and Relaxation: Incorporate mindfulness techniques to reduce anxiety related to sexual performance. This can help you focus on the sensations during intercourse rather than worrying about performance.
6. Consult a Professional: If you continue to experience issues with sensitivity or sexual performance, consider speaking with a healthcare professional. They can provide personalized advice and check for any underlying conditions that may be affecting your sexual health.
Conclusion
It’s important to remember that sexual health is a complex interplay of physical, psychological, and emotional factors. While masturbation is a normal and healthy part of sexual exploration, moderation is key to maintaining sensitivity and enjoyment during sexual activities. By taking a break and adjusting your habits, you can work towards restoring your sexual sensitivity and enhancing your overall sexual experience. If problems persist, seeking professional advice can provide further insights and solutions tailored to your needs.
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