Anxiety and tension?
Hello Doctor: For the past few weeks, I have been staying up late to prepare for a presentation.
Although I had completed it, I kept nitpicking at it.
I pulled an all-nighter a few days before the presentation, and I felt well-prepared.
However, on the morning of the presentation, I became so anxious that I felt a choking sensation, followed by complete body weakness and collapse.
Despite all my hard work, I was unable to present due to my physical and mental state.
I don't understand why I felt such intense anxiety.
I have been telling myself that as long as I don't get nervous, everything will be fine.
I know this concept well, but I just can't seem to overcome this tension.
I have a good understanding of the subject matter and my presentation skills are decent.
People around me assumed I was physically unwell, but I clearly felt it was a psychological issue.
I have always set high standards for myself, so even when I am well-prepared, I still feel a bit of fear about not meeting expectations.
However, I usually manage to perform adequately when the time comes, even if the outcome isn't always perfect.
I'm not someone who dwells on results after they happen, although I do hope for a good outcome before it occurs.
I don't know why I couldn't overcome this anxiety this time, and I almost fainted.
I also felt so much pressure that I could hardly breathe.
This is the first time I've encountered such a situation, but I feel it may happen again in the future.
I know that if I can just avoid being nervous, I can get through it, but I can't seem to shake off this feeling of anxiety.
Additionally, my insomnia is due to being too anxious to sleep.
I thought that lying down and overthinking would make me more anxious, so I decided to get up and make my presentation even better, hoping that would alleviate my nerves, but it didn't help.
I have tried many stress-relief methods, but I feel no effect.
I know this is my own issue, but how can I resolve it? I have always approached my tasks with a proactive attitude, and I don't want my anxiety to delay something I've prepared for so long.
I also don't want this feeling to affect my mental and physical health.
I am seeking your help.
I would greatly appreciate your advice!
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/10/27
Dr. Qiu Junda reply Psychiatry
Hello: Sometimes anxiety is inevitable, and from a certain perspective, it is a normal emotional response.
However, if it affects your functional performance, it definitely needs to be addressed.
If you have searched online for stress relief methods but found them ineffective, I recommend that you visit a mental health facility nearby for a consultation.
Discuss whether medication treatment is necessary; this should help you improve sooner.
Reply Date: 2016/10/27
More Info
It sounds like you are experiencing significant anxiety related to performance pressure, particularly in the context of public speaking and presentations. This is a common issue faced by many individuals, especially those who set high standards for themselves. The feelings of tightness in your chest, weakness, and overwhelming nervousness you described are indicative of anxiety, which can manifest physically and mentally.
Understanding Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety, often referred to as "stage fright," can occur even in individuals who are well-prepared and knowledgeable about their subject matter. The fear of not meeting expectations—whether those are self-imposed or perceived from others—can create a cycle of anxiety that is difficult to break. This anxiety can lead to physical symptoms such as sweating, rapid heartbeat, and even feelings of faintness, as you experienced.
Strategies for Managing Anxiety
1. Cognitive Behavioral Techniques: One effective approach is to challenge negative thoughts that contribute to your anxiety. When you find yourself thinking, "What if I mess up?" try to reframe it to something more positive, like, "I have prepared well, and I can handle this." Keeping a journal of these thoughts can help you recognize patterns and work on reframing them.
2. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practicing mindfulness can help ground you in the present moment and reduce anxiety. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or guided imagery can be beneficial. For instance, before your presentation, take a few moments to breathe deeply, focusing on inhaling and exhaling slowly. This can help calm your nervous system.
3. Gradual Exposure: If possible, practice your presentation in front of a small, supportive audience before the actual event. This can help desensitize you to the fear of public speaking and build your confidence.
4. Preparation and Practice: While you mentioned that you have prepared thoroughly, consider rehearsing your presentation multiple times, ideally in the same environment where you will be presenting. Familiarity with the setting can reduce anxiety.
5. Physical Activity: Engaging in regular physical exercise can help reduce overall anxiety levels. Activities like jogging, yoga, or even a brisk walk can help release endorphins, which improve mood and reduce stress.
6. Sleep Hygiene: Since you mentioned difficulty sleeping due to anxiety, it's crucial to establish a good sleep routine. Aim for consistent sleep and wake times, create a calming bedtime ritual, and limit screen time before bed. If your mind races with thoughts, consider writing them down before bed to clear your mind.
7. Professional Help: If your anxiety continues to interfere with your daily life and performance, consider seeking help from a mental health professional. Therapy, particularly cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), can be very effective for anxiety management. Medication may also be an option if recommended by a healthcare provider.
8. Self-Compassion: Finally, practice self-compassion. Understand that everyone experiences anxiety, and it’s okay to feel this way. Acknowledge your efforts and remind yourself that perfection is not the goal; rather, doing your best is what matters.
Conclusion
Managing performance anxiety is a process that takes time and practice. By implementing these strategies, you can gradually reduce your anxiety and improve your performance. Remember that it’s normal to feel nervous, and with the right tools and support, you can learn to manage these feelings effectively. If you find that your anxiety persists or worsens, do not hesitate to reach out for professional help. Your mental health is paramount, and addressing these issues early can lead to better outcomes in both your personal and professional life.
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