Depression, dizziness, stress-related issues?
Hello, I am inquiring on behalf of my boyfriend.
As his girlfriend, I feel helpless watching him struggle.
My boyfriend is currently serving in the military, and he recently told me that he has been experiencing dizziness.
He also mentioned feeling unwell and having racing thoughts.
He expressed that he is under so much pressure that he feels like he can't breathe and believes that life has no meaning, often thinking negatively.
He visited a psychiatrist back in May but refuses to take medication, believing that if he feels better, he shouldn't need it.
However, now that he is in the military, he is experiencing dizziness without clear symptoms, and his previous issues have resurfaced.
I read online that dizziness can be related to mental health, but he has limited access to doctors on weekends.
Should he return to see a psychiatrist? How can I help him?
Chen Kewei, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/12/15
Dr. Huang Weiqin reply Psychiatry
Hello: Based on your description of your friend's emotions and condition, it would be advisable to have a neurologist evaluate the dizziness.
As for the depression, stress, and negative thoughts, it would be more appropriate to continue with a psychiatric evaluation and treatment.
Reply Date: 2016/12/15
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It sounds like your boyfriend is going through a very challenging time while serving in the military, and it's commendable that you are seeking help for him. His symptoms—dizziness, feelings of worthlessness, and overwhelming stress—are concerning and could indicate a serious mental health issue, such as depression or anxiety.
First, it's important to understand that military life can be incredibly stressful. The demands of service, combined with the pressure to perform and adapt to a regimented lifestyle, can lead to mental health challenges. Many service members experience feelings of isolation, anxiety, and depression due to the unique stressors of military life, including separation from family and friends, high-stakes responsibilities, and sometimes traumatic experiences.
Dizziness can be a physical manifestation of anxiety or panic attacks, which are not uncommon in individuals experiencing high levels of stress. When someone feels overwhelmed, their body can react in various ways, including physical symptoms like dizziness, headaches, or gastrointestinal issues. It’s crucial to address both the mental and physical aspects of his health.
Given that your boyfriend has previously sought help from a psychiatrist, it would be advisable for him to return for further evaluation, especially since he is experiencing a resurgence of symptoms. While he may be hesitant to take medication, it's essential to understand that medication can be a helpful part of treatment for many individuals with depression and anxiety. It’s not a sign of weakness; rather, it can be a necessary tool to help him regain stability and cope with his feelings.
Encourage him to speak openly with his healthcare provider about his concerns regarding medication. There are various options available, and a psychiatrist can help find a treatment plan that minimizes side effects while addressing his symptoms. Additionally, therapy—such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT)—can be very effective in helping individuals manage their thoughts and feelings, providing them with coping strategies to deal with stress and anxiety.
In the meantime, here are some ways you can support him:
1. Encourage Open Communication: Let him know that it's okay to talk about his feelings and that you are there to listen without judgment. Sometimes, just having someone to talk to can alleviate feelings of isolation.
2. Promote Healthy Habits: Encourage him to engage in activities that promote physical and mental well-being, such as regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep. These can significantly impact mood and overall health.
3. Suggest Relaxation Techniques: Mindfulness, meditation, and deep-breathing exercises can help manage stress and anxiety. These techniques can be practiced anywhere and can provide immediate relief during overwhelming moments.
4. Seek Professional Help: If he is reluctant to see a psychiatrist, perhaps suggest visiting a counselor or therapist who specializes in military mental health. Many military installations have mental health resources available, and some may offer telehealth services that can be accessed even on weekends.
5. Be Patient and Understanding: Recovery from mental health issues can take time, and there may be ups and downs along the way. Your support and understanding can make a significant difference in his journey.
If his symptoms worsen or if he expresses thoughts of self-harm or suicide, it is crucial to seek immediate help. In the U.S., the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is available at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255), and they provide confidential support 24/7.
In summary, your boyfriend's situation is serious and warrants professional attention. Encourage him to seek help, and continue to be a supportive presence in his life. Mental health is just as important as physical health, and addressing these issues early can lead to better outcomes.
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