Feeling anxious about the future?
I have been suffering from depression for many years and have been seeing a doctor.
Recently, I feel that even with medication, it hasn't helped much; my mood remains low.
Perhaps I am putting pressure on myself, feeling that my life is a failure.
I have few friends, and when asked about my job, I can only say that I am unemployed, which makes me feel looked down upon.
In the past, friends have said they envy me for not having to work.
As I get older, I increasingly feel anxious about the future.
However, I consider myself quite lucky that my family still supports me with food and shelter.
I have always felt guilty towards my father because my brother told me that my dad's biggest worry is what will happen to me in the future.
I am actually very afraid of facing crowds, possibly due to being bullied in the past.
After graduation, I had some jobs, but they didn't last long.
I think my anxiety is related to my savings, as everything requires money.
Recently, there have been news reports about suicides, and honestly, it makes me very sad.
I can understand the pain of those with depression, yet I cannot bring myself to commit suicide, even though I know it takes courage.
If I could, I would wish to fall asleep and never wake up, as that seems like the least painful way to die.
I haven't had much motivation for years; how can I ignite some energy within myself? Thank you, doctor.
Nín hǎo, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/05/05
Dr. Liu Runqian reply Psychiatry
Symptoms of depression include: depressed mood, loss of interest in usual activities, cognitive and motor retardation, loss of appetite, weight loss, insomnia, fatigue and weakness in the limbs, restlessness, self-blame, feelings of guilt, helplessness, worthlessness, hopelessness, and suicidal thoughts or attempts.
Treatment for depression involves regular medical consultations and medication, and may also include psychotherapy.
In addition to relying on physicians and therapists, maintaining a regular routine and engaging in sufficient physical exercise can help improve symptoms.
Reply Date: 2017/05/05
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Overcoming anxiety about the future, especially when dealing with long-term depression, is a challenging journey that many individuals face. Your feelings of hopelessness, isolation, and fear are valid and deserve attention. It’s important to recognize that you are not alone in this struggle, and there are ways to navigate through these feelings.
Firstly, it’s crucial to understand that depression can significantly distort your perception of reality. It often leads to negative thinking patterns, where you may feel trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and despair. This can make it difficult to see any potential for a brighter future. The fact that you have been diagnosed with depression and are seeking help is a positive step. However, if you feel that your current treatment isn’t effective, it may be worth discussing this with your healthcare provider. They can reassess your treatment plan, which may include adjusting your medication or incorporating therapy.
Therapy, particularly cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), can be particularly beneficial for individuals struggling with anxiety and depression. CBT helps you identify and challenge negative thought patterns and replace them with more positive and realistic ones. It can also provide you with coping strategies to manage anxiety and improve your overall mood. Additionally, engaging in group therapy can help you connect with others who share similar experiences, reducing feelings of isolation.
Another aspect to consider is the importance of establishing a routine. A structured daily schedule can provide a sense of normalcy and purpose. Incorporating small, achievable goals into your day can help you regain a sense of accomplishment. This could be as simple as taking a walk, reading a book, or even cooking a meal. Physical activity is particularly beneficial for mental health, as it releases endorphins, which can improve your mood.
Social connections are also vital. While it may feel daunting, reaching out to friends or family members can provide emotional support. You mentioned feeling like you have no friends, but it’s important to remember that relationships can be cultivated over time. Consider joining clubs or groups that align with your interests, as this can help you meet new people in a low-pressure environment.
Financial concerns can exacerbate feelings of anxiety, especially when you feel uncertain about your future. It may be helpful to create a budget or financial plan, even if it’s a simple one. This can give you a clearer picture of your situation and help alleviate some of the stress associated with financial insecurity. If possible, consider seeking advice from a financial counselor who can help you navigate your concerns.
Lastly, it’s essential to practice self-compassion. Acknowledge that it’s okay to feel the way you do and that healing takes time. Engage in activities that bring you joy, even if they seem small. Journaling can be a powerful tool for processing your emotions and reflecting on your thoughts. Writing down your feelings can help you gain clarity and may even reveal patterns that you can address.
In conclusion, overcoming anxiety about the future while dealing with depression is a multifaceted process that requires patience and support. It’s important to communicate openly with your healthcare provider about your feelings and treatment. Remember that you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources available to help you navigate through these challenging emotions. With time, effort, and the right support, it is possible to find a path toward a more hopeful and fulfilling future.
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