Erection Issues: When to Seek Help for Sexual Health Concerns - Urology

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Sometimes I find it difficult to achieve an erection, whether it's from imagination or watching adult films.
Even if I do get an erection, it becomes soft when my focus shifts.
This makes me worry that there might be something wrong with my body, and I'm afraid that this will happen when I want to have sex.
However, there are times when my erections are normal and quite firm.
Doctors I've consulted have told me that it's a psychological issue, and my testosterone levels are normal.
I also experience morning erections that are firm and I exercise regularly.
I never had this issue before, but now I constantly worry about erectile dysfunction, which is very distressing.

Additionally, if I am not fully erect and then become erect only when I need to ejaculate, could this lead to erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation? This situation has only happened to me twice.
Will my penis width become thinner? My erection is about 11 centimeters long; is this a normal length? I hope the doctor can provide me with appropriate advice, as I am very concerned about the possibility of erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation affecting my ability to have normal sexual intercourse in the future.

Yan Zu, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/05/07

Dr. Du Mingyi reply Urology


As long as there is the ability to achieve an erection, it is considered normal.
There is no need for excessive worry, as occasional softness is a normal phenomenon related to physical condition and psychological factors.

Reply Date: 2019/05/07

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Erection issues can be a source of significant anxiety for many individuals, and it’s important to understand that such concerns are not uncommon. Based on your description, it seems you are experiencing intermittent erectile difficulties, which can be influenced by a variety of factors, both psychological and physiological.
Firstly, it’s essential to recognize that erectile function is a complex interplay of physical, psychological, and emotional factors. You mentioned that your testosterone levels are normal and that you experience morning erections, which are good indicators of physical sexual health. The fact that you are also engaging in regular exercise is beneficial, as physical fitness can enhance overall well-being and sexual function.

The psychological aspect of erectile dysfunction (ED) is often underestimated. Anxiety about performance, fear of failure, or even the pressure to perform can create a cycle of worry that exacerbates the problem. When you find yourself preoccupied with the possibility of not being able to achieve or maintain an erection, this anxiety can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. It’s crucial to address these psychological components, as they can significantly impact your sexual health.

You mentioned that sometimes you can achieve an erection, but it may not last if your attention shifts. This can be a common experience, especially if you are feeling anxious or distracted. It’s important to create a relaxed environment and to focus on intimacy rather than performance. Techniques such as mindfulness and relaxation exercises can help reduce anxiety and improve your sexual experience.

Regarding your concerns about whether these issues could lead to erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation in the future, it’s important to note that occasional difficulties do not necessarily indicate a chronic problem. However, if you find that these issues persist or worsen, it may be beneficial to consult with a healthcare professional who specializes in sexual health. They can provide a more comprehensive evaluation and discuss potential treatment options, which may include therapy, counseling, or medication if deemed appropriate.

As for your concerns about the size of your penis, it’s worth noting that the average erect penis size is typically between 5 to 6 inches in length, so your measurement of 11 cm (approximately 4.3 inches) is slightly below average but still within a normal range. It’s important to remember that penis size does not determine sexual satisfaction for you or your partner. Focusing on intimacy, communication, and emotional connection can often lead to a more fulfilling sexual experience than size alone.

In summary, while it’s natural to have concerns about erectile function, it’s essential to approach these issues with a balanced perspective. Addressing both the psychological and physical aspects of your sexual health can lead to improvements. If your concerns persist, seeking help from a qualified healthcare provider can provide you with the support and guidance you need. Remember, you are not alone in this experience, and many individuals face similar challenges. Open communication with partners and healthcare professionals can help alleviate anxiety and enhance your sexual health.

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