Paranoia: Coping Strategies for Mental Health at Home

Do I have paranoid delusions? What can I do while staying at home?

Hello Doctor: I have a personality that tends to make me suspicious of others.
For example, at school, I often doubt whether my classmates are planning to complain about me, but it doesn't significantly affect my life.
This year, I joined some group chats, and out of a moment of mischief, I created a new account to re-enter a group chat and pretended to be someone else, causing trouble in the group.
Eventually, my true identity was discovered.
I was initially criticized by everyone, and I often feared they would seek revenge on me since they had my photo.
Later, I apologized, and the group accepted my apology, allowing me back in.
However, I still wonder if they secretly organized a revenge plan against me.
They say my personality has improved a lot and even invited me to hang out, but I often fear they are just pretending to forgive me and might want to harm me.
I am extremely anxious every day.

Additionally, there was an incident where I sold something online, and a buyer complained that they hadn't received their item for a long time.
Someone commented below, accusing me of scamming them and said they reported me to the police.
However, I didn't do anything wrong, and I'm afraid they might have mistaken me for a scammer.
After these two incidents, I feel like I might be experiencing a mental health issue.
I have been in a constant state of panic; every time my phone rings, I fear it might be someone seeking revenge, and I worry about being attacked from behind when I'm out on the street.

Moreover, since childhood, whenever I have minor health issues, I worry that I might have a serious illness.
For instance, if I have a stomachache, I fear I might have stomach cancer.
I often daydream in my daily life and have a strong sense of pride.
Am I suffering from paranoid delusions or some other condition? What can I do while staying at home? I have had suicidal thoughts in the past, but I am afraid of worrying my family, so I haven't told them about these issues.
Thank you, Doctor.
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Peter, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/04/09

Dr. Zhang Gengjia reply Psychiatry

Dear Sir/Madam,
From your letter, it is evident that you are experiencing discomfort and distress.
In fact, you may be feeling more sensitive and anxious on one hand, while also feeling wronged and unfairly treated on the other.
This could exacerbate a range of complex psychological emotional responses, such as anxiety, depression, panic, denial, anger, and health anxiety, among others.
If these feelings become severe or persist, it is important to pay close attention and seek professional assistance from a psychiatrist if necessary.
I would like to remind you that the global pandemic is serious, and maintaining appropriate physical and mental well-being can help enhance your immune system.
It is advisable to be cautious, as information sources can be diverse yet overwhelming, making it difficult to discern their accuracy.
Misinformation can spread easily, leading to distorted knowledge and confusion.
When facing challenges, you may find it helpful to use the five principles of "calm, quiet, capable, connected, and hopeful" to adjust your mental state.
Additionally, if necessary, please seek medical attention immediately.
Our clinic is open Monday to Friday, both in the morning and afternoon.
I recommend considering a visit to the hospital for a personal assessment of your symptoms by a physician, so we can discuss the best decisions for you together.
Wishing you good mental and physical health.
Sincerely,
Dr.
Chang Geng-Jia
Department of Psychiatry

Reply Date: 2020/04/09

More Info

It sounds like you are experiencing a significant amount of anxiety and paranoia, which can be quite distressing. Your concerns about being judged or targeted by others, as well as your tendency to worry excessively about your health, indicate that you may be dealing with heightened levels of anxiety and possibly some underlying issues related to trust and self-esteem.

Firstly, it’s important to recognize that what you’re feeling is valid. Many people experience anxiety in various forms, and it can manifest in thoughts of paranoia or excessive worry about how others perceive them. The situations you described—feeling fearful of retaliation from others after a misunderstanding and worrying about being falsely accused—are common in individuals who struggle with anxiety. This can lead to a cycle of fear and avoidance, which can further exacerbate your feelings of paranoia.

The fact that you have a history of suicidal thoughts is particularly concerning. It’s crucial to address these feelings seriously. If you ever feel overwhelmed or in crisis, please reach out to a mental health professional or a crisis hotline in your area. You don’t have to go through this alone, and there are people who can help you navigate these feelings.

Here are some coping strategies that may help you manage your anxiety and paranoia at home:
1. Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Engaging in mindfulness practices such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga can help ground you in the present moment and reduce anxiety. These techniques can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgment.

2. Limit Exposure to Triggers: If certain environments or interactions exacerbate your feelings of paranoia, it may be helpful to limit your exposure to them, at least temporarily. This could mean taking a break from social media or avoiding certain groups that make you feel uncomfortable.

3. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a therapeutic way to process your emotions. It can also help you identify patterns in your thinking that may contribute to your anxiety. You might find it helpful to write about your fears and then challenge those thoughts by asking yourself if they are based on facts or assumptions.

4. Engage in Positive Activities: Find activities that bring you joy or relaxation, whether it’s reading, drawing, or spending time in nature. Engaging in hobbies can help distract you from negative thoughts and improve your mood.

5. Seek Professional Help: Given the intensity of your feelings and your history of suicidal thoughts, it’s essential to consider seeking help from a mental health professional. They can provide you with a safe space to discuss your feelings and may recommend therapy or medication if necessary.

6. Build a Support Network: While you may feel hesitant to share your struggles with family, consider confiding in someone you trust. Having a supportive friend or family member can make a significant difference in how you cope with your feelings.

7. Educate Yourself: Understanding anxiety and paranoia can empower you to manage your symptoms better. There are many resources available, including books and online courses, that can provide valuable insights into mental health.

8. Establish a Routine: Creating a daily routine can provide structure and predictability, which can be comforting when you’re feeling anxious. Include time for self-care, relaxation, and activities you enjoy.

Remember, it’s okay to ask for help, and taking the first step towards seeking support can be a significant move towards feeling better. You are not alone in this, and there are people and resources available to help you navigate these challenges.

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