NLP
Hello, doctor: I believe I have social anxiety disorder, as I feel nervous in certain situations, such as making phone calls to certain people or worrying that the teacher will call on me during class.
I have also read some psychology books and learned about NLP.
I would like to ask how this can be treated.
Is NLP effective for treatment? I understand the importance of positive thinking, but I find it difficult and feel a bit like I'm deceiving myself.
Hsu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2000/12/08
Dr. Li Junren reply Psychiatry
N.L.P.
(Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is not a recognized or scientifically validated therapeutic method.
In fact, legitimate psychotherapy textbooks do not include this type of treatment.
You can refer to the book "Doctors Jumping and Patients Screaming," published by Business Intelligence Publishing, specifically pages 245 to 255, which provide a perspective closer to that of professionals regarding NLP.
In summary, from a professional standpoint, it is not recommended to adopt NLP (even though it may appear professional and can be cited as used by various organizations).
Social anxiety disorder can be effectively managed through cognitive behavioral therapy, and medications can also have a certain level of efficacy.
In fact, if it does not cause inconvenience or negative impact on work or life, treatment may not be necessary.
You can seek a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist at a hospital to arrange a treatment strategy tailored to your needs.
Reply Date: 2000/12/08
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Overcoming social anxiety can be a challenging journey, and many individuals seek various methods to manage their symptoms. One approach that has gained attention is Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). However, it is essential to understand the context and efficacy of NLP in treating social anxiety disorder (SAD).
NLP is a set of techniques and strategies that aim to enhance personal development and communication. It focuses on the relationship between language, behavior, and the mind. While NLP practitioners often claim that it can help individuals change their thought patterns and behaviors, it is important to note that NLP is not widely recognized as a scientifically validated treatment for social anxiety or any psychological disorder. The mainstream psychological community tends to favor evidence-based therapies, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), which has a robust body of research supporting its effectiveness in treating social anxiety.
CBT is based on the premise that our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are interconnected. It helps individuals identify and challenge irrational thoughts that contribute to anxiety. For example, if you fear being called on in class, CBT would encourage you to examine the belief that "everyone will judge me if I make a mistake." By reframing this thought to something more realistic, such as "everyone makes mistakes, and it's okay," you can reduce anxiety and improve your confidence in social situations.
In contrast, NLP techniques may include visualization, reframing, and anchoring, which aim to create positive associations and change negative thought patterns. While some individuals report subjective improvements using NLP, the lack of empirical evidence makes it a less reliable option compared to CBT. Moreover, the feeling of "self-deception" you mentioned when trying to adopt positive thinking is a common experience. It can be challenging to shift deeply ingrained negative beliefs, especially if they have been reinforced over time.
For effective treatment of social anxiety, consider the following steps:
1. Seek Professional Help: A mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, can provide a proper diagnosis and recommend evidence-based treatments like CBT or medication if necessary.
2. Engage in CBT: Work with a therapist trained in CBT to learn how to identify and challenge negative thoughts. This process often involves exposure therapy, where you gradually face social situations that trigger anxiety in a controlled manner.
3. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness techniques can help you stay present and reduce anxiety. Practices such as meditation, deep breathing, and progressive muscle relaxation can be beneficial.
4. Build Social Skills: Consider joining a social skills training group or participating in activities that encourage social interaction in a supportive environment. This can help you practice and gain confidence in social situations.
5. Medication: If your anxiety is severe and impacting your daily life, medications such as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or beta-blockers may be prescribed by a psychiatrist to help manage symptoms.
6. Support Groups: Connecting with others who experience similar challenges can provide a sense of community and understanding. Support groups can be a valuable resource for sharing experiences and coping strategies.
In conclusion, while NLP may offer some tools for personal development, it is not a substitute for evidence-based treatments for social anxiety. Focusing on established therapies like CBT, combined with professional guidance and support, is likely to yield more effective results in overcoming social anxiety. Remember, recovery is a process, and seeking help is a crucial first step toward managing your anxiety and improving your quality of life.
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