Depressive tendencies, work fatigue?
I have been somewhat introverted and shy since childhood, even feeling inferior and not liking to answer questions.
I dislike going out to buy things or paying for them.
However, due to my family's situation, I have to work.
I have previously applied for jobs in the food service industry, as a gas station attendant, and as a clerk in a traditional Chinese medicine shop, but I left each of those jobs within a week, believing I was not capable of working in customer service.
The job I held the longest was as an operator, but I resigned due to environmental issues (the supervisors believed my abilities and speed were not on par with others, so they assigned me tasks that no one else wanted to do).
I have been unemployed for three months now and recently found another job as an operator, where I have worked for three days.
Every day at work, I take a lunch break (but I don't even want to eat) and even when I go home after work, I find myself sinking into sadness and despair.
My head hurts, and I wake up in the middle of the night feeling sad.
During my days off, I worry about the upcoming workdays and what I will do.
I want to pull myself together, but I feel like I can't; it’s just so hard to cope.
Now, even seeing others at work or imagining myself in a factory makes me wonder if I will end up isolating myself completely.
I have thought about whether getting into a car accident on my way to work would allow me to temporarily escape, but then I think about what I would do in the future after avoiding it.
I am so scared and sad about myself.
yu jie, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/10/11
Dr. Li Zhengfeng reply Psychiatry
Hello: Based on your letter, it seems you may be experiencing symptoms of depression.
Treatment for depression can include both pharmacological and non-pharmacological approaches, such as antidepressant medications or psychotherapy, as well as activity therapy.
It is advisable to consult a specialist for evaluation and treatment.
Wishing you a speedy recovery and a way out of depression.
Reply Date: 2020/10/11
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Overcoming depression and work fatigue can be an incredibly challenging journey, especially for someone who has faced a long history of anxiety, self-doubt, and social discomfort. Your experiences resonate with many who struggle with similar feelings, and it’s important to acknowledge that you are not alone in this battle.
First and foremost, it’s crucial to understand that depression is a medical condition that affects your mood, thoughts, and behaviors. It can lead to feelings of hopelessness, fatigue, and a lack of motivation, which can significantly impact your ability to work and engage with others. The feelings of inadequacy and fear of failure you describe are common among individuals dealing with depression. These feelings can create a vicious cycle where the fear of failure leads to avoidance of work situations, which in turn reinforces feelings of inadequacy.
Given your history of short-term employment and the challenges you've faced in various roles, it may be beneficial to explore the underlying issues contributing to your feelings of inadequacy. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a well-established treatment for depression that focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns. Working with a therapist can help you develop coping strategies, improve your self-esteem, and learn how to manage anxiety in social situations.
Additionally, it’s important to consider the type of work environment that would be most conducive to your well-being. You mentioned that you have had difficulty in service-oriented jobs, which often require a high level of social interaction and can be stressful. It might be worth exploring roles that align more closely with your strengths and comfort levels. For example, positions that allow for more independent work or those that provide a supportive team environment could be more suitable.
Incorporating self-care practices into your daily routine can also be beneficial. Regular physical activity, even in small amounts, can help alleviate symptoms of depression. Exercise releases endorphins, which can improve your mood and reduce feelings of fatigue. Additionally, maintaining a balanced diet and ensuring you get enough sleep are essential components of mental health.
Mindfulness and relaxation techniques, such as meditation or deep-breathing exercises, can also help manage anxiety and improve your overall emotional state. These practices can help you stay grounded and reduce the overwhelming feelings that often accompany depression.
It’s understandable to feel overwhelmed when thinking about returning to work or facing social situations. However, taking small steps can make a significant difference. Setting achievable goals for yourself, such as engaging in a short conversation with a colleague or completing a small task at work, can help build your confidence over time. Celebrate these small victories, as they are important milestones in your journey toward recovery.
Lastly, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. A mental health professional can provide you with the support and guidance you need to navigate your feelings and develop a personalized plan for overcoming depression and work fatigue. Remember, reaching out for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
In conclusion, overcoming depression and work fatigue is a process that requires patience and self-compassion. By addressing the underlying issues, exploring suitable work environments, incorporating self-care practices, and seeking professional support, you can begin to reclaim your confidence and find fulfillment in both your personal and professional life. Remember, it’s okay to take things one step at a time. Your journey is unique, and with the right support, you can find a path forward.
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