Seeking Help for a Loved One: Resources for Self-Harm and Suicide Prevention

Q: Seeking Help for a Loved One: Resources for Self-Harm and Suicide Prevention

Hello Mr. <br>Zhang： Thank you for your hard work! If your girlfriend shows any suicidal behavior, you can call the police to take her to the hospital. <br>Request a psychiatric consultation in the emergency room to talk with her and understand her situation. <br>Generally, indiv

Self-harm and suicide?

My girlfriend ran out after an argument and expressed suicidal thoughts.
She was taken to Tucheng Hospital by the police.
After I was contacted, I rushed there to bring her back.
However, within three days, we had another argument, and she ran out again.
Now, it's been almost two weeks, and her family only seems interested in money; they won't help unless I pay them.
I don't know who to turn to for help.
Is there a facility for individuals with suicidal tendencies in the Banqiao District? Since we are not married, can I take her back? Her parents previously sold a Japanese tea house in Linsen during her high school years, so if there is such a facility and I want to ask her parents for help, they only seem to care about money.
How can I find out if she is there?

Zhang Yuanhao, 40~49 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/10/23

Dr. Lin Mianzhang reply Psychiatry

Hello Mr.
Zhang: Thank you for your hard work! If your girlfriend shows any suicidal behavior, you can call the police to take her to the hospital.
Request a psychiatric consultation in the emergency room to talk with her and understand her situation.
Generally, individuals who exhibit recurrent suicidal behavior often require assistance from a psychiatrist.
The psychiatrist can assess whether she needs to be hospitalized and if involuntary hospitalization is warranted.
If hospitalization is necessary, during her stay, the reasons behind her suicidal thoughts can be explored for appropriate treatment.
If your girlfriend is unwilling to be hospitalized, it will depend on whether she meets the criteria for involuntary hospitalization; if she does, she can be admitted involuntarily; if not, she will have to be discharged.
Currently, there are no dedicated facilities for suicide prevention in the country, so it is advisable to seek psychiatric care if needed, arranging for outpatient or inpatient treatment as appropriate.
Wishing you safety and health!

Reply Date: 2020/10/23

More Info

I'm truly sorry to hear about your girlfriend's situation. It sounds incredibly challenging for both of you. When someone is in crisis and expresses suicidal thoughts or engages in self-harm, it's crucial to take their feelings seriously and seek appropriate help. Here are some steps you can take to support her and find the resources you need.

1. Immediate Support and Safety
First and foremost, ensure that your girlfriend is safe. If she is in immediate danger or has a plan to harm herself, it’s essential to contact emergency services or take her to the nearest hospital. In Taiwan, you can call the emergency services at 119.

2. Mental Health Resources
Since your girlfriend has already been hospitalized, it’s important to follow up with mental health professionals. You can look for psychiatric hospitals or mental health clinics in your area. In Banqiao District, there are several facilities that may offer the support she needs. Some options include:
- Taipei City Hospital: They have various mental health services and can provide assessments and treatment.

- Taiwanese Mental Health Association: They can offer resources and guidance on where to find help.

- Local Community Health Centers: These centers often have mental health services and can connect you with counselors or therapists.

3. Crisis Centers and Shelters
In Taiwan, there are crisis intervention centers that provide immediate support for individuals in distress. You can contact the Taiwan Suicide Prevention Center at 0800-788-995, which offers a 24-hour hotline for those in crisis. They can provide guidance and may be able to direct you to a shelter or a safe space for your girlfriend.

4. Involving Family
It seems that her family may not be supportive, which complicates the situation. However, if you feel comfortable, you could try to involve them in discussions about her mental health. It’s important to communicate that her well-being is the priority and that financial support alone is not sufficient.

5. Legal Considerations
Since you are not married, there may be limitations on what you can do legally regarding her care. However, if she is a minor or unable to make decisions for herself, her parents may have legal authority. If she is an adult, she has the right to make her own choices about her treatment, but you can still advocate for her by encouraging her to seek help.

6. Support for Yourself
Caring for someone in crisis can be emotionally draining. It’s important to take care of your own mental health as well. Consider seeking support from friends, family, or even a counselor for yourself. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and being in a good mental space will help you support her better.

7. Follow-Up Care
After any hospitalization, follow-up care is crucial. Encourage her to attend therapy sessions and to stay connected with mental health professionals. Regular check-ins can help her feel supported and less isolated.

Conclusion
Navigating a loved one’s mental health crisis is never easy, especially when family dynamics are complicated. However, by seeking out resources, advocating for her care, and ensuring her safety, you can make a significant difference in her life. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are professionals who can help guide both of you through this difficult time.

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