HIV/AIDS issues
Two weeks ago, I engaged in sexual activities where I first had the escort take a shower, then I lay naked on her bed for a massage, and I also had oral sex with a condom.
After that, I had her take another shower.
What is the risk of contracting HIV in this situation? I've been having trouble sleeping lately and feel like my body is hot all day.
I also used a saliva rapid test yesterday, which came back negative.
Could you please explain this to me in detail? Thank you.
Ayu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/11/01
Dr. Lin Wenxu reply Urology
Hello Ayu: It is recommended that you go to the Infectious Disease department for screening of sexually transmitted infections.
Dr.
Lin Wun-Hsu from the Urology department at Nantou Hospital.
Reply Date: 2020/11/01
More Info
When it comes to understanding the risks of HIV infection after recent sexual encounters, it's essential to consider several factors, including the nature of the sexual activity, the use of protection, and the health status of both partners. Based on your description, you engaged in sexual activities with a sex worker, which included protected oral sex and some intimate contact. Let's break down the risks and provide some insights.
Risk of HIV Transmission
1. Protected Sex: Using a condom significantly reduces the risk of HIV transmission during vaginal or anal intercourse. However, condoms can fail due to slippage or breakage. In your case, you mentioned that you used a condom during oral sex, which is generally considered a lower-risk activity for HIV transmission compared to vaginal or anal sex. The risk of HIV transmission through oral sex is much lower than through penetrative sex, especially if there are no open sores or bleeding gums involved.
2. Nature of Activities: The activities you described, such as washing and massaging, do not pose a risk for HIV transmission. HIV is primarily transmitted through specific bodily fluids (blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk) and requires a route of entry into the bloodstream, which is typically through mucous membranes during penetrative sex or through open wounds.
3. Testing and Window Period: You mentioned that you performed a saliva rapid test, which returned negative. It's important to note that saliva tests are not as reliable as blood tests for detecting HIV. The window period for HIV testing can vary; most tests can detect HIV within 2 to 4 weeks after exposure, but it is recommended to get tested again at 3 months for conclusive results. If you have concerns about potential exposure, consider visiting a healthcare provider for a more comprehensive HIV test.
Symptoms and Anxiety
You also mentioned experiencing symptoms such as feeling hot and having trouble sleeping. While these symptoms can be concerning, they are not specific to HIV infection. Many factors can cause such symptoms, including anxiety, stress, or other infections. Acute HIV infection can present with flu-like symptoms, but these typically occur within 2 to 4 weeks after exposure and may include fever, fatigue, sore throat, and swollen lymph nodes. However, not everyone experiences these symptoms, and their absence does not rule out infection.
Mental Health Considerations
It's understandable to feel anxious after a potential exposure to HIV, especially when considering the implications for your health and the health of your loved ones. If you are experiencing significant anxiety or thoughts of self-harm, it is crucial to seek support from mental health professionals or helplines. Talking about your feelings and concerns can help alleviate some of the stress you are experiencing.
Conclusion
In summary, while there is a risk of HIV transmission associated with sexual encounters, the specific activities you described, particularly with the use of a condom during oral sex, suggest a lower risk. However, it is essential to follow up with appropriate testing and consult healthcare professionals for further evaluation and peace of mind. Remember that practicing safe sex and regular testing are key components of maintaining sexual health. If you have ongoing concerns, do not hesitate to reach out to a healthcare provider for personalized advice and support.
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