The brain and body control us; we are not free?
I have many dental issues, but I am afraid to see a dentist; this is a form of psychological avoidance.
I have been avoiding it for over two years and still cannot bring myself to go.
It feels like a fear, akin to being afraid of sharp blades; fear is fear, and I cannot overcome it.
If physical sensations were something I could control, I could teach myself not to fear sharp objects or pain, even to the point of ending my own life.
Overcoming something means trying my best within a reasonable scope, but for me, the inability to face dental care is a reality.
Therefore, it is not as simple as just receiving counseling or doing some mental preparation.
The purpose of raising this question is to validate my point, as I believe that my body or brain controls me, preventing me from doing what I should do.
In conclusion: hunger means eating, thirst means drinking; these are not things one can simply endure or resist.
The same applies to fears of sharp objects, pain, or heights.
Jeff, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/12/11
Dr. Lin Mianzhang reply Psychiatry
Hello Jeff: Thank you for your hard work! Visiting the dentist can be a frightening experience for many people; however, dental health is crucial for overall health.
If you have such a strong aversion to seeing the dentist, you might consider talking to a psychiatrist.
Psychological therapy or medication could help you overcome your fear of dental visits.
Wishing you peace and good health!
Reply Date: 2020/12/11
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Overcoming fear, especially when it comes to dental care, is a significant challenge for many individuals. Your experience of avoiding dental visits for over two years due to an intense fear is not uncommon, and it highlights a complex interplay between mental health and physical health. This fear can stem from various sources, including past traumatic experiences, anxiety disorders, or even a general fear of pain and medical procedures.
Firstly, it's essential to recognize that fear of dental treatment is a legitimate concern and can be classified as dental anxiety or dental phobia. This condition can lead to a cycle of avoidance, where the fear of pain or negative experiences associated with dental visits prevents individuals from seeking necessary care. The longer one avoids dental treatment, the more significant the dental issues can become, leading to a compounding of fear and anxiety.
Understanding the root of your fear is crucial. Many people fear dental procedures due to the anticipation of pain, the sounds and smells associated with dental offices, or even the feeling of helplessness while in the dental chair. It’s important to acknowledge that these feelings are valid and that you are not alone in experiencing them.
One effective approach to overcoming this fear is through gradual exposure. This means slowly introducing yourself to the dental environment without the pressure of undergoing treatment immediately. You might start by visiting the dental office just to familiarize yourself with the surroundings, meeting the staff, and discussing your fears with the dentist. Many dental professionals are trained to handle anxious patients and can provide a supportive environment.
Additionally, sedation dentistry could be an option worth considering. This approach allows patients to undergo dental procedures while in a relaxed state, significantly reducing anxiety. There are various sedation options available, from nitrous oxide (laughing gas) to oral sedatives and IV sedation. Discussing these options with a dentist who specializes in treating anxious patients can provide you with a sense of control over your treatment.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is another effective method for addressing dental anxiety. This therapeutic approach helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns associated with their fears. A mental health professional can work with you to develop coping strategies and relaxation techniques that can be employed before and during dental visits.
Mindfulness and relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or visualization, can also be beneficial in managing anxiety. Practicing these techniques regularly can help you develop a sense of calm that you can draw upon when facing your fears.
It's also important to communicate openly with your dentist about your fears. A good dentist will take your concerns seriously and work with you to create a treatment plan that accommodates your anxiety. They may offer to explain each step of the procedure beforehand, allowing you to feel more in control.
Lastly, consider seeking support from friends, family, or support groups. Sharing your experiences and fears with others who understand can provide comfort and encouragement.
In conclusion, overcoming the fear of dental care is a process that requires patience and support. By taking small steps, seeking professional help, and utilizing relaxation techniques, you can gradually reduce your anxiety and take control of your dental health. Remember, addressing these fears is not just about overcoming them; it’s about prioritizing your health and well-being. Your dental health is an integral part of your overall health, and taking the first step towards treatment is a courageous and commendable decision.
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