Sexual intercourse
Dear Dr.
Liu,
I had sexual intercourse with a girl two days ago, and I used a condom.
She also performed oral sex on me.
However, the day after, I started feeling a tingling sensation around my genital area.
I'm unsure if she might have an infection because I've known her online for a long time.
If she does have an infection, what should I do? I used a condom, but I'm worried about the possibility of transmission through oral sex.
Could you please give me some advice? Thank you.
Xiao Wei, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2003/02/24
Dr. Liu Jianting reply Urology
It sounds very difficult! It's great that you are using protection.
As for what illness it might be, I recommend that you visit a urologist at a hospital to get checked out and also to ask any questions you may have on the spot!
Reply Date: 2003/02/24
More Info
When it comes to concerns about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) after engaging in sexual activities, it’s important to understand the risks associated with different types of sexual contact, including oral sex and penetrative sex, as well as the protective measures taken, such as using condoms.
From your description, you mentioned that you had protected vaginal intercourse using a condom and also received oral sex from the same partner. Generally, using a condom significantly reduces the risk of transmitting STDs during penetrative sex. However, it’s important to note that while condoms are highly effective, they are not 100% foolproof. If the condom was used correctly throughout the entire act, the risk of transmission of STDs during vaginal intercourse is quite low.
Regarding oral sex, the risk of transmitting STDs through oral contact is lower compared to penetrative sex, but it is not negligible. Certain STDs, such as herpes, gonorrhea, and chlamydia, can be transmitted through oral sex, especially if there are cuts or sores in the mouth or on the genitals. If your partner had any oral lesions or infections, there could be a risk of transmission. However, if both you and your partner are asymptomatic and have no known infections, the risk remains low.
You mentioned feeling a tingling sensation around your genital area the day after the encounter. This could be due to a variety of reasons, including anxiety, irritation, or even a mild allergic reaction to the condom or lubricant used. It’s not uncommon for individuals to experience heightened anxiety after sexual encounters, especially if there are concerns about STDs. This anxiety can manifest physically, leading to sensations that may cause worry.
If you are concerned about the possibility of having contracted an STD, it is advisable to get tested. Many STDs can be asymptomatic, meaning you might not show any symptoms even if you are infected. Testing is the only way to confirm your status. It’s generally recommended to wait at least two weeks after potential exposure for initial testing, but some tests may require a longer window period to ensure accuracy.
In the meantime, here are some steps you can take to address your concerns:
1. Monitor Symptoms: Keep an eye on any symptoms that may develop, such as unusual discharge, sores, or persistent irritation. If you notice any concerning symptoms, seek medical attention promptly.
2. Get Tested: Schedule an appointment with a healthcare provider for STD testing. It’s a good practice to get tested regularly if you are sexually active, especially with new partners.
3. Communicate with Your Partner: If you feel comfortable, discuss your concerns with your partner. Open communication can help alleviate anxiety and ensure both parties are informed about their sexual health.
4. Practice Safe Sex: Continue to use condoms for all sexual activities to reduce the risk of STDs in the future. Additionally, consider discussing sexual health and testing with partners before engaging in sexual activities.
5. Seek Support: If anxiety about STDs is affecting your mental health, consider speaking with a mental health professional. They can help you manage your anxiety and provide coping strategies.
In conclusion, while the use of a condom during vaginal intercourse significantly reduces the risk of STD transmission, oral sex does carry some risk, albeit lower. If you have concerns about your health, getting tested is the best course of action. Remember that maintaining open communication with partners and practicing safe sex are key components of sexual health.
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