Erectile dysfunction
Hello doctor, I am a third-year junior high school student.
Recently, when I masturbate, I start off feeling very aroused and my erection is firm, but after a short while, my penis becomes less hard, roughly at the level of the floor, and my desire decreases significantly.
What could be happening to me? I've experienced this before, and I was quite anxious at that time, especially since it coincided with my exams.
I thought I should focus on studying, so I didn't pay much attention to this issue, but I still masturbated about two to three times a week.
Eventually, I don't know why, it seemed to improve.
After my exams, I was stuck at home due to the pandemic, and I ended up masturbating about six times a week.
At first, everything was fine until recently when it started to happen as I described above.
I want to ask how I can improve this situation.
Also, I've been staying up late until one or two in the morning, but I don't get up until after eleven.
I previously saw a doctor who told me that a 15-year-old wouldn't have issues with sexual dysfunction.
Is that correct? I've been feeling very anxious these days, and I occasionally watch adult films to see if I can get an erection.
I can get an erection, and it does point upwards, but after standing for a while, it gradually softens.
Is this due to nervousness? Should I stop this behavior? Thank you, doctor, for patiently reading my four questions.
I want to ask if it's normal that I start off with a strong erection while masturbating, but after watching adult films, I suddenly lose desire and it slowly softens.
I get very anxious thinking about this, but I continue until I ejaculate, at which point it becomes a bit harder.
Is this normal? Could my sudden loss of desire be due to staying up late?
En en, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/06/17
Dr. Cai Zhuorong reply Urology
The pressure of exams, anxiety related to erectile function, and lack of sleep can all have negative effects.
It is recommended to engage in more physical exercise.
Reply Date: 2021/06/17
More Info
Understanding erection issues in adolescents can be complex, as it involves a combination of physiological, psychological, and environmental factors. As a 15-year-old, it's important to recognize that your body is still developing, and fluctuations in sexual function, including erections, are quite common during this stage of life.
Firstly, it's essential to understand that many adolescents experience variations in their sexual arousal and erection quality. Factors such as stress, anxiety, fatigue, and even hormonal changes can significantly impact sexual function. In your case, you mentioned feeling anxious, especially during exam periods, which can lead to performance anxiety. This anxiety can create a cycle where the fear of not being able to maintain an erection leads to further anxiety, making it even more challenging to achieve or sustain an erection.
Additionally, your sleep patterns may also play a role in your sexual health. You mentioned staying up late and waking up late, which can disrupt your body's natural rhythms and affect your overall energy levels, mood, and sexual desire. Sleep is crucial for hormonal balance, and inadequate sleep can lead to increased stress levels and decreased libido.
It's also worth noting that excessive masturbation, while a normal part of adolescent sexual exploration, can sometimes lead to temporary desensitization or reduced sexual desire. If you're engaging in this behavior frequently, it might contribute to the feelings of decreased arousal or difficulty maintaining an erection. This is often a temporary phase and can improve with a more balanced approach to sexual activity.
Regarding your concern about whether a 15-year-old can experience erectile dysfunction, it's important to clarify that while true erectile dysfunction is less common in adolescents, issues with arousal and erection can occur due to the factors mentioned above. It's not unusual for young men to experience fluctuations in their sexual performance, especially when under stress or dealing with anxiety.
To improve your situation, consider the following strategies:
1. Manage Stress and Anxiety: Engage in relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or physical exercise. These can help reduce anxiety levels and improve your overall mood.
2. Establish Healthy Sleep Habits: Aim for a consistent sleep schedule, ensuring you get enough rest each night. Good sleep hygiene can significantly impact your energy levels and mood.
3. Limit Exposure to Pornography: While it's normal to be curious, excessive consumption of pornography can create unrealistic expectations about sex and may contribute to anxiety. Try to reduce the time spent watching adult content.
4. Communicate Openly: If you're comfortable, talk to a trusted adult or healthcare provider about your concerns. They can provide guidance and reassurance.
5. Focus on Healthy Relationships: Building emotional connections with peers can help alleviate some of the pressure you may feel regarding sexual performance.
6. Seek Professional Help: If your anxiety persists or worsens, consider speaking with a mental health professional who specializes in adolescent issues. They can provide support and coping strategies tailored to your needs.
In conclusion, while it can be concerning to experience changes in sexual function, it's essential to recognize that these fluctuations are often normal during adolescence. By addressing underlying stressors, improving sleep habits, and seeking support when needed, you can work towards a healthier relationship with your body and your sexual health. Remember, it's always okay to seek help and talk about your feelings and concerns.
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