Confusion After Masturbation: Erectile Dysfunction and Treatment Options - Urology

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Hello, doctor… After masturbating, I experienced erectile difficulties, discomfort during the process, and difficulties with ejaculation the next day.
After that incident, I exerted pressure on my abdomen to suppress ejaculation, and that’s when the problems started.
I have seen several doctors; some directly said it was a psychological issue and prescribed erectile dysfunction medication and painkillers without needing a follow-up.
Others tested my urine, said there was inflammation, prescribed antibiotics for a week, and then said no further medication or follow-up was necessary.
Some suggested I should take anti-inflammatory medication for a long time.
I want to ask: 1.
They all say to seek active treatment, but why do the doctors have different opinions and approaches? Is there really a problem? 2.
When I asked the doctors if exerting pressure on my abdomen to suppress ejaculation could cause harm, several said it wouldn’t… I’m confused.
Clearly, I had issues after masturbation… I don’t know how to treat this.
Is it prostatitis, seminal vesiculitis, or some other inflammation? Do I need to learn to be a doctor myself? Why can’t any of the doctors explain things clearly? The examinations are unclear, and I want to know what’s wrong, whether it will get better, and why is it so difficult?

Qiujiu, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/09/11

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: After masturbating, I experienced difficulties with erections the next day, discomfort during the process, and challenges with ejaculation.
I had a problem after trying to suppress ejaculation by straining my abdomen.
Clinically, I don't recall encountering such a case.
I've seen several doctors; some directly attributed it to psychological issues and prescribed erectile dysfunction medication and painkillers, stating that follow-up was unnecessary.
Others conducted urine tests, diagnosed inflammation, prescribed antibiotics for a week, and then said no further medication or follow-up was needed.
Some suggested a long-term course of anti-inflammatory medication.
I would like to ask: 1.
They all say to pursue active treatment, but why are the doctors' opinions and approaches so different? Is there really a problem? -- Your situation, after examinations and tests, is generally treated based on symptoms, which may take a long time.
It's also crucial to pay attention to your lifestyle (very important), including diet, hydration, rest, exercise, and safe sexual practices—none of these can be neglected.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2021/09/11

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Confusion surrounding erectile dysfunction (ED) and related issues after masturbation is a common concern, and it can be quite distressing. Your experience highlights the complexities of diagnosing and treating sexual health issues, particularly when symptoms arise suddenly after an event like masturbation. Let's break down your questions and concerns.

1. Variability in Medical Opinions: It's not uncommon for different healthcare providers to have varying opinions on the same issue. This can be due to several factors, including differences in clinical experience, interpretation of symptoms, and the underlying conditions they suspect. In your case, some doctors may have focused on psychological factors, while others considered potential physical issues like prostatitis or seminal vesiculitis. The lack of a definitive diagnosis can be frustrating, but it reflects the complexity of sexual health and the need for a thorough evaluation.
2. Impact of Straining During Masturbation: Straining during ejaculation can potentially lead to temporary issues, such as pelvic floor muscle tension or even minor trauma to the area. However, most healthcare professionals agree that such actions typically do not cause lasting damage. If you experienced discomfort or pain during the act, it might have contributed to your current symptoms, but it is unlikely to be the sole cause of erectile dysfunction or ejaculation difficulties.

3. Potential Conditions: The symptoms you describe—difficulty achieving an erection and problems with ejaculation—could be related to several conditions, including:
- Prostatitis: Inflammation of the prostate gland, which can cause pain and urinary issues.

- Seminal Vesiculitis: Inflammation of the seminal vesicles, which can also affect ejaculation.

- Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, or performance anxiety can significantly impact sexual function.

4. Treatment Options: Treatment for erectile dysfunction and related issues often depends on the underlying cause. If a physical condition is diagnosed, such as prostatitis, antibiotics or anti-inflammatory medications may be prescribed. If psychological factors are at play, therapy or counseling may be beneficial. Additionally, medications like phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis) can help with erectile dysfunction, but they should be used under the guidance of a healthcare provider.

5. Next Steps: Given the complexity of your symptoms and the variability in medical advice you've received, it may be beneficial to seek a specialist in sexual medicine or urology. A thorough evaluation, including a physical examination, possibly imaging studies, and laboratory tests, can help clarify the diagnosis.
6. Self-Care and Education: While it may feel overwhelming, educating yourself about sexual health can empower you to have informed discussions with your healthcare providers. Understanding the anatomy and physiology involved in sexual function can help you articulate your concerns better and ask more targeted questions.

In conclusion, while the path to understanding and treating erectile dysfunction can be convoluted, it is essential to remain proactive in seeking answers. Don't hesitate to ask for referrals to specialists or request a second opinion if you feel your concerns are not being adequately addressed. Remember, sexual health is an integral part of overall well-being, and finding the right support is crucial for recovery.

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