Masturbation techniques?
I masturbate about once a day, but my method seems different from others.
Most people primarily use an up-and-down motion, but I need to use a hard object, like a small water bottle, to rub against my penis and testicles.
I have tried the normal up-and-down method, but I can't achieve ejaculation.
Additionally, my glans does not expose itself when I have an erection.
However, during examinations in elementary and middle school, the doctor did not mention any issues.
Could this be phimosis?
Y, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/09/22
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Masturbation is a common and natural behavior among individuals, and people often develop unique techniques that work best for them. Your description of using a hard object, such as a small water bottle, for stimulation is not uncommon. Many individuals find that varying their techniques can enhance their experience. However, it’s essential to ensure that any object used is safe, clean, and designed for such purposes to avoid injury or infection.
Regarding your concern about not being able to achieve ejaculation with the traditional up-and-down method, this can be attributed to several factors. Psychological factors, such as anxiety or stress, can significantly impact sexual arousal and performance. Additionally, physical factors, including sensitivity levels and the presence of any underlying medical conditions, can also play a role. If you find that your current method is the only one that allows you to achieve orgasm, it may be worth exploring why that is the case. Consulting with a healthcare professional, such as a urologist or a sexual health specialist, can provide insights and help address any underlying issues.
As for your question about phimosis, it is characterized by the inability to retract the foreskin over the glans (the head of the penis). If you notice that your glans does not become exposed during an erection, it could indicate a condition known as phimosis. While you mentioned that doctors did not express concern during childhood examinations, it’s important to note that phimosis can sometimes develop or become more noticeable during puberty or later in life.
Phimosis can be classified into two types: physiological and pathological. Physiological phimosis is common in infants and young boys and often resolves naturally as they grow older. Pathological phimosis, on the other hand, may occur due to scarring, inflammation, or infection and may require medical intervention.
If you are experiencing discomfort, difficulty with hygiene, or issues during sexual activity due to the inability to retract the foreskin, it is advisable to seek medical advice. A healthcare provider can assess your situation and discuss potential treatment options, which may include topical treatments, stretching exercises, or, in some cases, surgical options like circumcision.
In summary, your unique masturbation technique is not inherently problematic, but if it is causing distress or if you have concerns about your sexual health, it is essential to consult with a healthcare professional. They can provide personalized advice and address any issues related to phimosis or other sexual health concerns. Remember, sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and seeking help is a positive step towards understanding and improving your sexual health.
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