Sensory perception issues?
Doctor, during the process of masturbation, I do not feel any sexual pleasure in my penis.
There is almost no pre-ejaculatory fluid before ejaculation, but I can still achieve ejaculation after a long time, although it feels like I can't ejaculate.
Additionally, I experience a sensation of fullness in my perineum and anus, and it seems that the perineal area and anus become increasingly tense involuntarily during the process, similar to the feeling of needing to urinate.
I have consulted doctors before, but they all attributed it to psychological factors and did not answer my questions.
My previous experiences with masturbation were very pleasurable.
What is happening to me? I am not intentionally trying to withhold ejaculation.
After one particular incident, I have been experiencing ongoing issues.
Could that one instance of withholding ejaculation have such a significant impact? Is there a possibility that my organs are injured? This situation is making me feel very distressed, and my libido has noticeably decreased, with little excitement or urge for erections.
danxin, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/11/14
Dr. Jian Weihong reply Urology
Hello: Retaining semen should not cause this type of situation.
It is recommended to consult a physician specializing in sexual function at a medical center.
Currently, it is important to maintain regular exercise and rest.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2021/11/14
More Info
Understanding sexual sensation issues, particularly in the context of urological concerns, can be complex and multifaceted. Your experience of diminished pleasure during masturbation, along with the sensation of tightness in the perineum and anus, raises several important points that warrant exploration.
Firstly, it’s essential to recognize that sexual pleasure is influenced by a combination of physical, psychological, and emotional factors. The fact that you previously experienced enjoyment during masturbation but now find it lacking suggests that there may be underlying changes in your physical or psychological state.
One potential explanation for your symptoms could be related to anxiety or stress. Psychological factors can significantly impact sexual function and pleasure. If you have been experiencing heightened anxiety or stress, this could lead to a decrease in sexual arousal and pleasure. The tightness you describe in the perineum and anus may also be a physical manifestation of this anxiety, as the body often responds to stress with muscle tension. This tension can create a cycle where the more anxious you feel, the more tense your pelvic muscles become, which in turn can lead to discomfort and reduced pleasure during sexual activities.
Additionally, the sensation of feeling like you cannot ejaculate or that there is a lack of pre-ejaculatory fluid can be concerning. This could be linked to several factors, including hydration levels, hormonal changes, or even the frequency of sexual activity. If you have recently altered your masturbation habits—such as trying to hold back ejaculation—this could also contribute to changes in sensation and pleasure. The body can sometimes take time to adjust to new patterns of sexual activity, and it’s possible that the experience you had when you "held back" may have created a psychological association that is now affecting your current experiences.
It is also worth considering the physical health of your urological system. Conditions such as pelvic floor dysfunction, prostatitis, or other urological issues can lead to sensations of tightness or discomfort in the pelvic region. If you have not already done so, it may be beneficial to consult with a urologist who specializes in sexual health. They can conduct a thorough examination and rule out any physical conditions that may be contributing to your symptoms.
Moreover, it’s important to address the emotional aspects of your sexual health. Feelings of frustration or concern about your sexual function can create a negative feedback loop, where anxiety about performance leads to further difficulties. Engaging in open conversations with a mental health professional, particularly one who specializes in sexual health, can provide you with tools to manage anxiety and improve your sexual experiences.
In summary, your situation appears to be a combination of psychological and potentially physical factors. It would be advisable to seek a comprehensive evaluation from both a urologist and a mental health professional. They can work together to address the various aspects of your sexual health, helping you to regain a sense of pleasure and comfort in your sexual experiences. Remember, it’s important to be patient with yourself as you navigate these changes, and seeking help is a positive step towards understanding and improving your sexual health.
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