I'm sorry! But you helped me?
Dear Dr.
Tang,
I may have asked too many questions, but at least you have helped me.
I will not forget, thank you! There's no need to reply to this letter.
Xiao Jie, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2003/06/12
Dr. Tang Xinbei reply Psychiatry
Dear Xiao Jie,
I understand that you have been working hard to improve your condition, and it seems that your body has uncomfortable reactions to certain medications.
Additionally, you appear to have multiple concerns, which is why you have been seeking help online.
Thank you for your trust in me and for supporting the Taiwan e-Hospital website! While I can offer some suggestions, I am unable to provide you with ongoing substantial assistance.
I am not familiar with your illness or diagnosis, nor do I know what medications you are taking, so some of my opinions or suggestions may conflict with your physician's advice.
This could lead to confusion for you and potentially cause concern for your doctor.
In my previous letter, I provided some responses.
To avoid unnecessary complications from virtual interactions, I have decided to temporarily postpone answering your questions.
I hope you can establish a better doctor-patient relationship with your attending physician! After all, continuous understanding is essential for improving your condition, rather than repeatedly changing medications or doctors.
Wishing you peace and joy!
Reply Date: 2003/06/12
More Info
Thank you for your heartfelt note. It's clear that you are navigating a challenging time, both for yourself and for those around you. Mental health is a crucial aspect of our overall well-being, and it’s commendable that you are seeking to understand how to support your loved ones while also managing your own feelings.
Firstly, regarding your mother’s situation, it sounds like she is experiencing significant stress related to her job transition, which can indeed lead to symptoms such as memory decline, insomnia, and anxiety. Stress can have profound effects on cognitive function and emotional health, even in younger individuals. At 44, your mother is still quite young, and while cognitive decline is often associated with aging, it can also be exacerbated by stress and anxiety. It’s essential to encourage her to seek professional help, such as consulting a psychiatrist or a psychologist, who can provide a proper assessment and treatment plan. Therapy, combined with possible medication, can significantly improve her symptoms over time.
In terms of dietary considerations, certain foods are known to support brain health and may help improve memory and cognitive function. Foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids, such as salmon, walnuts, and flaxseeds, are beneficial for brain health. Antioxidant-rich fruits and vegetables, particularly berries, leafy greens, and nuts, can also support cognitive function. Additionally, staying hydrated and maintaining a balanced diet can have a positive impact on mental health.
When it comes to comforting your mother, your presence and support are invaluable. Listening to her concerns without judgment, validating her feelings, and encouraging her to express herself can help her feel less isolated. Simple gestures, like spending quality time together or engaging in relaxing activities, can also provide her with comfort. Remind her that it’s okay to seek help and that she doesn’t have to face her challenges alone.
As for your friend who is expressing harmful thoughts towards her cat, this is a serious situation that requires immediate attention. It’s crucial to approach her with empathy and concern. Encourage her to talk about her feelings and let her know that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed, but it’s not okay to act on harmful impulses. Suggesting that she speak with a mental health professional can be beneficial. If she seems at risk of harming herself or others, it may be necessary to involve a trusted adult or mental health professional to ensure her safety and the safety of the animal.
In both cases, your role as a supportive friend or family member is vital. Sometimes, just being there, offering a listening ear, and showing that you care can make a significant difference. Encourage them to seek professional help, as mental health professionals are trained to provide the necessary support and interventions.
Lastly, it’s important to take care of your own mental health as well. Supporting others can be emotionally taxing, so ensure you are also finding ways to manage your stress and emotions. Engaging in activities you enjoy, practicing mindfulness, or seeking support for yourself can help you maintain your well-being while you support others.
In conclusion, mental health is a complex and sensitive issue, but with the right support and resources, both your mother and your friend can find the help they need. Your willingness to reach out and seek guidance is a significant first step in fostering a supportive environment for them. Thank you for your thoughtful questions, and I wish you and your loved ones the best on this journey toward better mental health.
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