Is It Normal to Need a Break After Ejaculation? Urology Insights - Urology

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Doctor, may I ask, after I ejaculate during masturbation, I don't feel the urge to get an erection again until I rest for a while.
However, I have friends who say they can go multiple times in a row, even two or three times.
I also have friends who are similar to me.
Is this normal? Thank you!

ricky, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2003/12/07

Dr. Huang Chikai reply Urology


Hello Ricky: Your condition is normal; each person's constitution is different, just like some people need several bowls of rice while others are satisfied with just one.
There's no need to worry.
Dr.
Huang Chih-kai

Reply Date: 2003/12/07

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It's completely normal to experience a refractory period after ejaculation, which is the time during which a man cannot achieve another erection or orgasm. This period varies significantly among individuals and can be influenced by various factors including age, hormonal levels, physical health, and psychological state.

After ejaculation, the body undergoes several physiological changes. The levels of certain hormones, such as prolactin, increase, which can lead to a temporary decrease in sexual arousal and desire. This is a natural response of the body, and the duration of the refractory period can vary widely. Some men may be able to achieve another erection shortly after ejaculation, while others may require a longer period of rest.
For younger men, the refractory period may be shorter, allowing for multiple erections in a relatively short time. In contrast, as men age, this period tends to lengthen, making it more common for them to need a break before being able to engage in sexual activity again. Factors such as fatigue, stress, and overall health can also play a significant role in how quickly one can regain sexual arousal after ejaculation.

It's important to note that there is no "normal" when it comes to sexual performance and recovery. Each person's body is different, and what is normal for one individual may not be for another. If you find that your refractory period is significantly longer than what you consider comfortable or if you experience any other concerning symptoms, it may be worth discussing with a healthcare professional.
In terms of sexual health, maintaining a healthy lifestyle can positively impact sexual function. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, adequate sleep, and managing stress levels can all contribute to improved sexual health and potentially a shorter refractory period. Additionally, open communication with partners about sexual preferences and experiences can enhance sexual satisfaction and reduce anxiety related to performance.

In summary, your experience of needing a break after ejaculation is entirely normal and varies from person to person. If you have concerns about your sexual health or function, consulting with a urologist or a healthcare provider specializing in sexual health can provide personalized insights and recommendations.

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