Post-discharge planning (fear of not being able to manage it)
Hello, doctor.
I recently discharged from a psychiatric day hospital, and in two and a half months, school will start again.
There are so many things I want to do during the summer, but I'm afraid I won't be able to keep up and might give up halfway, which could lead to self-harm or not taking my medication.
I think about these things because when I was hiking, I couldn't continue halfway, and I felt very guilty, which made me less motivated to pursue my plans.
My condition had just stabilized, and now it feels like it's about to get chaotic again.
Could you please give me some advice?
Dan, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/06/12
Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry
It's recommended to schedule a follow-up appointment and discuss these concerns and issues with your physician.
Dr.
Wu En-Liang.
Reply Date: 2023/06/12
More Info
Post-discharge planning is a crucial phase in the recovery process, especially for individuals who have recently been discharged from a psychiatric facility. It’s understandable that you are feeling overwhelmed with the pressure of wanting to accomplish many things during your summer break, while simultaneously grappling with anxiety and self-doubt. These feelings can often lead to a cycle of negative thoughts and behaviors, including self-harm and medication non-compliance, which can jeopardize the progress you've made in your mental health journey.
First and foremost, it’s important to acknowledge that feeling anxious about the future and doubting your abilities is a common experience, particularly after a significant life event such as a hospitalization. The key is to develop strategies to manage these feelings effectively. Here are some recommendations that may help you navigate this challenging time:
1. Set Realistic Goals: Instead of overwhelming yourself with a long list of tasks, break down your goals into smaller, manageable steps. For instance, if you want to go hiking, start with shorter trails and gradually increase the difficulty as you feel more comfortable. This approach not only makes your goals more achievable but also helps build your confidence as you accomplish each step.
2. Practice Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques: Engaging in mindfulness practices can help you stay present and reduce anxiety. Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can be beneficial. When you feel overwhelmed, take a moment to pause, breathe deeply, and focus on your surroundings. Grounding exercises can help you reconnect with the present moment and alleviate feelings of self-doubt.
3. Create a Support System: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who understand your journey. Share your goals and feelings with them, and don’t hesitate to ask for help when needed. Having a support system can provide encouragement and accountability, making it easier to stay on track.
4. Develop a Routine: Establishing a daily routine can provide structure and stability, which is especially important after discharge. Incorporate activities that promote well-being, such as regular exercise, healthy eating, and sufficient sleep. A consistent routine can help reduce anxiety and create a sense of normalcy.
5. Seek Professional Support: If you find that your anxiety and self-doubt are becoming overwhelming, consider reaching out to a mental health professional. Therapy can provide a safe space to explore your feelings, develop coping strategies, and address any underlying issues that may be contributing to your anxiety.
6. Challenge Negative Thoughts: When you notice self-critical thoughts, try to challenge them. Ask yourself if there is evidence to support these thoughts or if they are based on fear and insecurity. Replacing negative thoughts with more positive and realistic affirmations can help shift your mindset.
7. Celebrate Small Achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem. This practice can help reinforce positive behavior and motivate you to continue working towards your goals.
8. Limit Comparisons: It’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others, especially on social media. Remember that everyone’s journey is unique, and focusing on your own progress is more beneficial than measuring yourself against others.
9. Stay Committed to Your Treatment Plan: If you have been prescribed medication, it’s crucial to adhere to your treatment plan. If you have concerns about your medication or its effects, discuss these with your healthcare provider rather than discontinuing it on your own.
10. Be Kind to Yourself: Lastly, practice self-compassion. Understand that setbacks are a part of the recovery process. If you experience a difficult day or feel like you’ve fallen short of your goals, remind yourself that it’s okay. What matters is your commitment to continue moving forward.
In conclusion, overcoming anxiety and self-doubt post-discharge requires a multifaceted approach that includes setting realistic goals, practicing mindfulness, seeking support, and maintaining a commitment to your treatment plan. Remember that recovery is a journey, and it’s perfectly normal to experience ups and downs along the way. By implementing these strategies, you can create a supportive environment for yourself as you transition into this new phase of your life.
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