Determining the Conception Date: Is My Baby from My Ex or Current Partner? - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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I would like to know on which day I successfully conceived?


I broke up with my ex on January 19 and started a new relationship in early February.
My period started on February 6 and ended on February 10.
I went to the hospital for a pregnancy test in early April, which showed I was not pregnant.
In early May, an ultrasound revealed that I was 6 weeks and 5 days pregnant.
On May 27, during another ultrasound at 9 weeks, I wanted to confirm whether this pregnancy was related to my ex, considering I had my period after the breakup.

Mi Xiaoke, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2024/07/18

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Hello, it should have nothing to do with your ex.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2024/07/18

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Determining the conception date and establishing paternity can be a complex issue, especially when there are overlapping relationships and uncertainties about the timing of sexual encounters. In your case, you have provided a timeline that includes the dates of your last menstrual period, the dates of sexual activity with both your ex-partner and your current partner, and the results of your pregnancy tests and ultrasounds.

To start, let's clarify the typical process of determining the conception date. Conception usually occurs around the time of ovulation, which typically happens about 14 days after the first day of your last menstrual period (LMP) in a regular cycle. Given that your last menstrual period started on February 6, and assuming a regular cycle, ovulation would likely have occurred around February 20. If you had sexual intercourse around that time, it would increase the likelihood of conception.

You mentioned that you had a menstrual period after your breakup with your ex-partner, which is a significant factor. If your menstrual cycle is regular, the presence of a menstrual period after your relationship with your ex-partner suggests that you were not pregnant at that time. Therefore, any conception that occurred would have to be after your menstrual period ended in early February.

The ultrasound findings you received in early May indicated that you were about 6 weeks and 5 days pregnant. This aligns with a conception date around late February, which would be consistent with the ovulation timing discussed earlier. If you had sexual intercourse with your current partner shortly after your menstrual period ended, it is likely that he is the father of the child.

However, if there is still uncertainty, a paternity test can provide definitive answers. Paternity testing can be conducted through a DNA test, which is highly accurate and can confirm whether your current partner is the biological father of the child. This test can be performed after the baby is born, or in some cases, during pregnancy through non-invasive prenatal paternity testing (NIPP).

In summary, based on the information provided, it appears that the child is likely to be from your current partner, given the timing of your menstrual cycle and the subsequent sexual activity. However, if you still have doubts, a paternity test is the most reliable way to confirm the biological relationship. It is important to communicate openly with your partner about your concerns and the potential need for testing, as this can help in navigating the complexities of your situation.

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