I'm considering whether or not to see a doctor?
I often get angry over trivial matters or feel frustrated, and I tend to take it out on others.
I find it hard to control my anger, and sometimes I cry for no reason, feeling useless and even having thoughts of wanting to die.
When I'm happy, I'm very happy, but when I'm not, I feel terrible.
I also often have trouble sitting still.
I'm unsure if I should seek medical attention for this.
Hou Er, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/03/17
Dr. Lin Yanhong reply Psychiatry
Hello: You can first visit the website of the Dong's Foundation at http://www.jtf.org.tw/ and enter the mental health section, where there is a self-assessment scale for depression for Taiwanese individuals.
If your self-assessment indicates a possibility of depression, I think it is also necessary to consult a doctor.
Dr.
Lin
Reply Date: 2004/03/17
More Info
It sounds like you are experiencing a range of intense emotional struggles that are affecting your daily life and relationships. Based on what you’ve described, it would be beneficial for you to consider seeing a mental health professional. Here’s why:
1. Emotional Instability: You mentioned experiencing extreme mood swings, feeling very happy at times and then very low at others. This kind of emotional fluctuation can be indicative of mood disorders, such as bipolar disorder or major depressive disorder. These conditions can significantly impact your quality of life and relationships if left untreated.
2. Anger and Irritability: Frequent anger and the tendency to take it out on others can be signs of underlying issues that may need to be addressed. This can lead to strained relationships and feelings of guilt or shame afterward, which can further exacerbate your emotional distress.
3. Suicidal Thoughts: The fact that you have thoughts of wanting to die is a serious concern. Suicidal ideation is a sign that you are in significant emotional pain and need immediate support. It’s crucial to talk to someone who can help you navigate these feelings and provide the necessary care.
4. Crying Spells and Feelings of Worthlessness: Regularly feeling overwhelmed to the point of crying and feeling useless can be symptoms of depression. These feelings can be debilitating and may require professional intervention to help you cope and find healthier ways to manage your emotions.
5. Physical Symptoms: You also mentioned feeling restless and unable to sit still, which can be associated with anxiety disorders. Anxiety can manifest in various ways, including physical restlessness, and can be effectively treated with therapy and/or medication.
Recommendations:
- Seek Professional Help: It’s important to reach out to a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist. They can provide a thorough assessment of your symptoms and help you understand what you are experiencing. They can also recommend appropriate treatment options, which may include therapy, medication, or a combination of both.
- Therapy: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for managing mood swings, anger, and depressive symptoms. It can help you develop coping strategies and change negative thought patterns.
- Medication: If your symptoms are severe, medication may be necessary to help stabilize your mood and reduce feelings of anxiety and depression. A psychiatrist can discuss the benefits and risks of medication with you.
- Support System: In addition to professional help, consider talking to trusted friends or family members about what you’re going through. Having a support system can make a significant difference in your recovery process.
- Self-Care: Engage in self-care practices that promote emotional well-being, such as regular exercise, a balanced diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness or relaxation techniques.
Conclusion:
Your emotional struggles are valid, and seeking help is a courageous step toward feeling better. Remember, you don’t have to go through this alone. Mental health professionals are trained to help individuals navigate these challenges, and they can provide you with the tools and support you need to improve your emotional well-being. Don’t hesitate to reach out for help; it’s an important part of taking care of yourself.
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