Anxiety: A Student's Struggle with Sound Sensitivity - Psychiatry

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Hello Dr. Chen, I would like to explain my condition?


Hello Doctor, I would like to explain my situation.
When I was in the third year of junior high school, I did poorly on an English test, and the teacher hit the whole class as a punishment.
I was hit twice on the palm of my hand, and after that, I felt a strange sensation in my palm that was different from previous experiences of being hit.
Since that incident, I have frequently felt inexplicably anxious and easily startled by sounds, such as a microphone.
Whenever the teacher raises their voice suddenly during class, I get startled.
In any environment, if it is quiet and suddenly there is a sound (regardless of volume) or someone speaks behind me, I get scared, which causes me a lot of distress.
I am afraid to participate in many activities and just go to school.
On Sundays at church, I prefer to sit at the back, away from the microphone, so I can feel at ease and concentrate, as I dislike being seen and getting startled.
During my afternoon naps, I also struggle to fall asleep because I wake up suddenly for no reason when I am about to doze off.
This situation has persisted for two years, and now that I am in the second year of high school, I can hardly bear it anymore.
Therefore, I sought help online to understand what is happening.
Thank God I found this assistance, and I would like to thank you, Doctor, for your response.
May God bless you.

A Long, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/09/04

Dr. Chen Wenke reply Psychiatry


Hello Brother Aaron: From your experience, it seems that you are experiencing significant emotional reactions.
Many people encounter various setbacks during their learning process, which is completely normal.
I believe this is a trial that the Lord Jesus wants you to endure, and you must continually pray to Him for strength.

Of course, from a medical perspective, this alone may not resolve the issue.
Currently, you are exhibiting clear symptoms of anxiety, panic, and fear.
When similar situations arise, these symptoms tend to recur.
You may find yourself withdrawing socially and lacking confidence.
Initially, you could ask someone you trust to accompany you to places you are afraid to go, gradually increasing the time you spend alone in those situations.

A staged desensitization approach can help you achieve your goals.
You can also expose yourself repeatedly to the situations you fear, much like wearing a pair of shoes with stones inside; it’s uncomfortable at first, but over time, you may not notice the discomfort anymore.

An important point is that appropriate medication can significantly aid in the rapid alleviation of symptoms.
I recommend consulting a psychiatrist for treatment.
Wishing you peace.

Reply Date: 2004/09/04

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It sounds like you are experiencing significant distress related to sound sensitivity and anxiety, which has been ongoing for a couple of years. Your description indicates that certain sounds, particularly sudden or loud noises, trigger a strong emotional and physical response, leading to feelings of fear and discomfort. This can be quite challenging, especially in environments like school where noise is often unavoidable.

From a medical perspective, what you are describing could be related to a condition known as "misophonia," which is characterized by strong emotional reactions to specific sounds. However, it may also be a manifestation of generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) or a specific phobia related to sound. The experience of being startled or frightened by sudden noises is not uncommon in individuals with anxiety disorders. The initial incident you described in your third year of middle school, where you were physically punished, may have contributed to a heightened state of anxiety, particularly around auditory stimuli.

It's important to understand that anxiety can manifest in various ways, and your sensitivity to sound could be a symptom of a broader anxiety disorder. The fact that you feel the need to sit far away from microphones or avoid situations where you might be startled indicates that this sensitivity is impacting your daily life and activities. This is a valid concern and warrants attention.

Here are some strategies that may help you cope with your sound sensitivity and anxiety:
1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This is a highly effective treatment for anxiety disorders. CBT helps you identify and challenge negative thought patterns and develop coping strategies. A therapist can work with you to gradually expose you to sounds in a controlled manner, helping you to desensitize your reactions over time.

2. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as mindfulness meditation, deep breathing exercises, and progressive muscle relaxation can help you manage anxiety symptoms. These techniques can help you stay grounded and reduce the intensity of your reactions to unexpected sounds.

3. Sound Therapy: Some individuals find relief through sound therapy, which involves listening to calming sounds or white noise to help mask sudden noises. This can create a more soothing auditory environment and reduce the impact of startling sounds.

4. Gradual Exposure: If you feel comfortable, you might try gradually exposing yourself to the sounds that trigger your anxiety in a safe and controlled way. Start with lower volumes and slowly increase as you become more comfortable.

5. Support Groups: Connecting with others who experience similar challenges can provide a sense of community and understanding. Support groups can be a valuable resource for sharing experiences and coping strategies.

6. Professional Help: Given the duration and intensity of your symptoms, it may be beneficial to seek help from a mental health professional. They can provide a thorough assessment and develop a tailored treatment plan that may include therapy, medication, or a combination of both.

7. Lifestyle Changes: Regular physical activity, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can also contribute to overall mental well-being and help manage anxiety symptoms.

It's crucial to remember that you are not alone in this struggle, and there are effective treatments available. Seeking help is a strong and positive step towards managing your anxiety and improving your quality of life. If you feel overwhelmed, please consider reaching out to a mental health professional who can provide the support you need.

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