Frequent urination before bedtime and hair pulling?
Hello! Because I live in a dormitory at university, I had a dream one night about using the restroom (I also had a similar experience in middle school where I dreamt about using the bathroom and actually wet the bed).
Since then, I've been really afraid of wetting the bed in my dorm.
Therefore, I always make sure to use the restroom before going to sleep.
However, sometimes after I finish using the restroom and then chat with my classmates on the computer for about half an hour, when I decide to go to bed, I feel the need to use the restroom again.
Of course, there isn't much urine, but as long as I'm about to sleep, I always go to the restroom first.
Even if I don't feel a strong urge to urinate, I still go.
If I tell myself not to go because I don't have much to urinate, once I'm in bed, I will feel the urge to go again.
It turns out I only have a little bit of urine, which is quite bothersome.
This seems to be a psychological factor causing my frequent urination...
Additionally, since elementary school, I have had a habit of pulling my hair.
I pull my hair when studying, when I'm thinking about something, and when I'm anxious; it seems to help me focus better.
However, I can restrain myself as long as there are classmates around.
Thank you! I really appreciate it!
Xiao You, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2004/11/13
Dr. Chen Wenyu reply Psychiatry
Hello, Xiao You: It is natural to feel fear after a setback, but this is not a serious issue.
I suggest that you drink less water or beverages after dinner and make sure to use the restroom before going to bed.
Once in bed, remind yourself that you have already urinated and do not need to go again.
After a few times, your confidence will gradually return, and the issue will resolve itself.
After all, that incident was just a one-time occurrence; many people experience similar situations but do not talk about them.
Regarding the hair-pulling issue, based on your description, it seems to be just a bad habit and does not qualify as trichotillomania.
Habits can certainly be changed; whenever you feel the urge to pull, remind yourself not to do it, and over time, the habit will naturally improve.
Thank you for your letter!
Reply Date: 2004/11/13
More Info
Nighttime urination, also known as nocturia, and hair pulling, or trichotillomania, are two behaviors that can be influenced by psychological factors. Understanding these behaviors requires a multi-faceted approach that considers both physiological and psychological aspects.
Nighttime Urination (Nocturia)
Nocturia can be a common issue, especially among individuals who experience anxiety or stress. In your case, the fear of wetting the bed after dreaming about a bathroom may have heightened your awareness of your bladder, leading to a psychological response where you feel the need to urinate even when your bladder is not full. This phenomenon is often referred to as "psychogenic nocturia," where the urge to urinate is driven more by psychological factors than by physiological needs.
The anxiety surrounding the possibility of bedwetting can create a cycle of behavior where you feel compelled to check your bladder status repeatedly. This can lead to a heightened sense of urgency and frequency of urination, even when there is little to no urine present. To manage this, it may be helpful to practice relaxation techniques before bed, such as deep breathing or mindfulness meditation, to reduce anxiety levels. Additionally, establishing a bedtime routine that includes a final trip to the bathroom can help create a sense of closure for the evening, allowing you to feel more secure and less anxious about needing to urinate during the night.
Hair Pulling (Trichotillomania)
Trichotillomania is a psychological condition characterized by the compulsive urge to pull out one’s hair, often as a way to cope with stress, anxiety, or boredom. You mentioned that you pull your hair while studying or thinking, which suggests that this behavior may serve as a form of self-soothing or a way to enhance focus. Many individuals with trichotillomania report that pulling hair provides a temporary sense of relief or pleasure, which can reinforce the behavior over time.
The key to addressing trichotillomania lies in understanding the triggers and finding healthier coping mechanisms. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) has been shown to be effective in treating this condition by helping individuals identify the thoughts and feelings that lead to hair pulling and developing strategies to manage those urges. Additionally, keeping your hands busy with fidget toys or engaging in activities that require manual dexterity can help reduce the urge to pull hair.
Conclusion
Both nighttime urination and hair pulling can be influenced by psychological factors, particularly anxiety and stress. It is essential to recognize that these behaviors are not uncommon and can be managed with appropriate strategies. Seeking support from a mental health professional can provide you with tailored coping mechanisms and therapeutic techniques to address these issues effectively.
In summary, addressing the psychological aspects of these behaviors can lead to improved well-being and a reduction in the frequency of both nocturia and hair pulling. Remember, it’s important to be patient with yourself as you work through these challenges, and seeking help is a strong and positive step towards managing your symptoms.
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