Overcoming Fear: A Journey Through Mental Health Challenges - Psychiatry

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Hello, Doctor: I am a patient with a psychosomatic disorder, and I have the following concerns.

1.
I have been suffering from mental illness for almost six years now.
I truly hope that one day I can recover and not experience any relapses.
This illness torments me, and I long for a day when, if recovery is not possible, I can find relief.

2.
Although I have a disability certificate, I do not want to return to military service.
Serving in the military would only exacerbate my condition, and I do not wish to go back.
Is it true that if I do not have a disability certificate, I must return to service? I am not trying to evade my military duties.

3.
Since childhood, I have sometimes been able to see things from another world.
I watched horror movies as a child and have occasionally felt and even clearly seen such things.
I have been terrified of them from a young age.
I am so afraid that I cannot go upstairs alone if no one is home, I cannot sleep alone, and I feel scared whenever it gets dark or when I am alone at home.
Please do not tell me that if I do nothing wrong, I should not be afraid, or that encountering them is fate; these statements are not helpful to me.
I have always been this timid.

4.
I used to help others with a kind heart, but the reality of society is harsh.
During my vacation, I lost my phone, and now my umbrella has been stolen.
I really do not know what to do.
I want to use my scholarship to help the poor, but people in society...
My teacher said I am trying to profit from my scholarship.

Li, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/02/28

Dr. Lin Yanhong reply Psychiatry


Hello: Based on your four points, here are my responses: 1.
There are many types of psychoneurosis; some can be cured while others may easily relapse.
I'm not sure what diagnosis your doctor has given you.
Regardless, every issue typically has a solution or a way to improve.
2.
Generally, having a disability certificate may qualify you for exemption from military service.
What category does your disability fall under? 3.
If there are things in another realm that only you can see while others cannot, from a medical perspective, this is referred to as visual hallucinations.
Some conditions, including psychosis, can present with this symptom.
Otherwise, it can only be explained through supernatural beliefs.
However, I cannot explain your situation in that manner, and I recommend that you undergo a brain examination at a hospital.
4.
Social realities and human nature extend beyond the philosophical scope of medicine.
I can only tell you that doing good deeds will bring blessings, while wrongdoers will face consequences.

Reply Date: 2005/02/28

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Overcoming fear and mental health challenges is a journey that many individuals face, and it can be particularly daunting when dealing with conditions such as anxiety disorders or other mental health issues. Your concerns reflect a deep struggle with fear, anxiety, and the impact of these feelings on your daily life. Let’s break down your concerns and explore some strategies that may help you navigate this journey.

1. Longing for Recovery: It’s understandable to wish for a day when you no longer feel the burden of mental illness. Recovery from mental health conditions can be a long and winding road, often filled with ups and downs. It’s important to recognize that healing is not always linear. Many people find that while they may experience periods of stability, they can also face relapses. This doesn’t mean that you are not making progress. Seeking therapy, whether cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), or other modalities, can provide you with tools to manage your symptoms and reduce the frequency and intensity of relapses. Medication may also play a role in your treatment plan, and discussing options with a psychiatrist can be beneficial.

2. Military Service Concerns: Regarding your military service, it’s crucial to understand your rights and the regulations surrounding your situation. If you have a disability that is documented, you may be eligible for exemptions or alternative service options. It’s advisable to consult with a legal expert or a veterans’ affairs representative who can provide guidance based on your specific circumstances. Remember, seeking help is not an act of avoidance; it’s a step towards ensuring your mental health is prioritized.

3. Fear of the Supernatural: Your experiences with fear, particularly regarding the supernatural, can be deeply unsettling. It’s important to acknowledge that these fears are valid and can stem from various sources, including childhood experiences and cultural influences. Cognitive behavioral therapy can be particularly effective in addressing irrational fears by helping you challenge and reframe your thoughts. Gradual exposure to feared situations, under the guidance of a therapist, can also help desensitize you to these fears over time.

4. Disappointment in Society: It’s disheartening to feel that your kindness and intentions to help others are met with negativity or theft. This can lead to feelings of frustration and hopelessness. It’s essential to remember that while there are negative experiences, there are also many individuals and organizations that value and appreciate altruism. Finding a community or support group that shares your values can provide a sense of belonging and reinforce your desire to help others. Additionally, consider focusing on small, manageable ways to give back that align with your capabilities and comfort level.

5. Coping Strategies: In addition to professional help, there are several self-care strategies that can aid in managing anxiety and fear:
- Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness can help ground you in the present moment and reduce anxiety. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or guided imagery can be beneficial.

- Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can provide an outlet for your emotions and help you process your experiences.

- Physical Activity: Regular exercise has been shown to reduce anxiety and improve mood. Find an activity you enjoy, whether it’s walking, yoga, or dancing.

- Social Support: Surround yourself with supportive friends or family members who understand your struggles. Sharing your experiences can alleviate feelings of isolation.

In conclusion, overcoming fear and mental health challenges is a multifaceted process that requires patience, support, and self-compassion. It’s important to seek professional help and utilize coping strategies that resonate with you. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources and communities available to support you. Your desire to heal and help others is a powerful motivator, and with time and effort, you can find a path toward greater peace and fulfillment.

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