Managing Emotional Turmoil During Adolescence: Seeking Help - Family Medicine

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Emotional dysregulation


I am currently in my teenage years and often struggle to control my emotions, which causes friction with my family and friends, leaving me very troubled.
My father often wonders if this is inherited from my mother's hyperthyroidism, but I was checked at the hospital in sixth grade and found no such condition.
I got into a fight with a classmate the day before yesterday.
Which medical specialty should I consult for treatment or help?

Wei Yu, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/04/29

Dr. Hong Shouhong reply Family Medicine


Hello! Common symptoms of hyperthyroidism include palpitations, weight loss, tremors in the hands, and thyroid enlargement.
There may also be signs of increased nervousness, although this is less likely to occur in isolation.
Typically, multiple symptoms are present.
It is recommended that you consult your primary care physician for a detailed medical history and physical examination to make an accurate diagnosis.
Thank you!

Reply Date: 2005/04/29

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Navigating emotional turmoil during adolescence can be a challenging experience, and it’s commendable that you are seeking help. Adolescence is a time of significant physical, emotional, and social changes, which can lead to heightened emotions and conflicts with family and friends. Your situation, where you feel overwhelmed by your emotions and have experienced conflicts, is not uncommon among teenagers.

First, it’s essential to understand that emotional fluctuations during adolescence are often linked to hormonal changes, brain development, and social pressures. These factors can contribute to feelings of anger, frustration, and sadness, which may manifest in conflicts with peers and family members. It’s also worth noting that while your father may suspect a hereditary condition like hyperthyroidism, your previous medical evaluation ruled that out. This indicates that your emotional challenges are likely not due to a medical condition but rather the natural developmental stage you are in.

Given your situation, seeking help from a mental health professional would be a beneficial step. Here are some recommendations on how to proceed:
1. Consult a Mental Health Professional: A psychologist or psychiatrist specializing in adolescent mental health can provide you with the support you need. They can help you explore your emotions, understand the underlying causes of your feelings, and develop coping strategies. Therapy can be a safe space for you to express your feelings without judgment.

2. School Counselor: If you are still in school, consider speaking with a school counselor. They are trained to help students navigate emotional and social challenges and can provide immediate support and resources. They can also assist in mediating conflicts with peers and help you develop better communication skills.

3. Family Therapy: Since you mentioned conflicts with family, family therapy could be beneficial. This type of therapy involves family members and focuses on improving communication and resolving conflicts. It can help your family understand your emotional struggles and work together to create a supportive environment.

4. Support Groups: Joining a support group for adolescents can also be helpful. Sharing experiences with peers who are going through similar challenges can provide a sense of belonging and understanding. It can also help you learn from others’ coping strategies.

5. Physical Health Check: While your previous thyroid test was normal, if you continue to experience significant emotional distress, it might be worth revisiting a healthcare provider for a comprehensive evaluation. Sometimes, underlying health issues can contribute to emotional symptoms, so it’s essential to rule those out.

6. Develop Coping Strategies: In addition to seeking professional help, consider developing personal coping strategies. This could include engaging in physical activities, practicing mindfulness or meditation, journaling your thoughts and feelings, or pursuing hobbies that bring you joy. These activities can help manage stress and improve your emotional well-being.

7. Open Communication: Lastly, maintain open lines of communication with your family. Expressing your feelings and concerns can help them understand your perspective and reduce misunderstandings. It’s crucial for your family to know what you’re experiencing so they can provide the necessary support.

In summary, seeking help from a mental health professional is a critical step in managing your emotional turmoil. It’s important to address these feelings early on to prevent them from escalating and affecting your relationships further. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources available to help you navigate these challenges effectively.

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