Struggling with a Picky Eater: Tips for Boosting Your Toddler's Weight - Nutrition

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Helpless mother


My daughter is just over a year and a half old, and she doesn't eat anything; even when she does eat, it's only a little bit.
She currently weighs only 9 kilograms, and I feel really helpless.
I don't know what to feed her to help her gain weight.

A Bi, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/06/30

Dr. Xie Huimin reply Nutrition


Dear Abbi: Your daughter has indeed lost a little weight, and there are a few points to assess.
First, is she experiencing a consistent increase in weight? If her weight continues to decline, more attention is needed.
Second, is her activity level normal? If her energy is good, her health status should be considered relatively okay.
The reasons for her lack of appetite need to be analyzed.
It may be helpful to consult a pediatric gastroenterologist to evaluate her gastrointestinal function and determine if trying some digestive aids is necessary.
Many people commonly use probiotics, lactobacillus, or yeast supplements.
A varied diet can also be attempted.
Patience is key in this situation, and it is advisable to consult a physician or a registered dietitian for further evaluation! Best regards, Hwei-Min Hsieh.

Reply Date: 2005/06/30

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When it comes to boosting the weight of a picky eater, especially a toddler who is only 1.5 years old and weighs 9 kg, it’s essential to approach the situation with patience and creativity. At this age, children can be notoriously selective about their food choices, and it’s not uncommon for them to refuse certain foods or only eat small amounts. Here are some strategies to help encourage your toddler to eat more and gain weight in a healthy way.


1. Focus on Nutrient-Dense Foods:
Since your daughter is not eating much, it’s crucial to ensure that the foods she does consume are rich in calories and nutrients. Opt for foods that are high in healthy fats, such as:
- Avocado: This fruit is calorie-dense and can be mashed or spread on toast.

- Nut Butters: Peanut butter or almond butter can be spread on whole-grain bread or mixed into smoothies.

- Full-Fat Dairy: Whole milk, full-fat yogurt, and cheese can provide essential fats and calories.

- Oils: Adding a little olive oil or coconut oil to her meals can increase the calorie content without requiring her to eat a larger volume of food.


2. Frequent, Small Meals:
Toddlers often have small stomachs, so instead of three large meals, consider offering five to six smaller meals or snacks throughout the day. This can help her consume more calories without overwhelming her at mealtime.


3. Make Food Fun:
Presentation can make a big difference for picky eaters. Try to make meals visually appealing by using colorful fruits and vegetables, arranging food in fun shapes, or creating a “food art” plate. Engaging her in the process of meal preparation can also spark her interest in trying new foods.


4. Incorporate Smoothies:
Smoothies can be an excellent way to pack in calories and nutrients. You can blend fruits, vegetables, yogurt, and even nut butters to create a delicious and nutritious drink. This can be especially helpful if she is resistant to solid foods.


5. Limit Distractions During Meals:
Create a calm eating environment by minimizing distractions such as television or toys during mealtime. This can help her focus on eating and may encourage her to try more foods.


6. Be Patient and Persistent:
It’s important to remain patient and not to pressure her to eat. Children often need to be exposed to a new food multiple times before they will try it. Keep offering a variety of foods without forcing her to eat them.


7. Consult a Pediatrician or Nutritionist:
If you are concerned about her weight and eating habits, it may be beneficial to consult a pediatrician or a registered dietitian who specializes in pediatric nutrition. They can provide personalized guidance and ensure that her growth and development are on track.


8. Monitor Growth:
Keep track of her growth patterns using growth charts. If she is following her growth curve, even if she is on the lower end, it may be less concerning. However, if there are significant deviations, professional advice is essential.


Conclusion:
Encouraging a picky eater to gain weight can be challenging, but with the right strategies, it is possible to create a positive eating environment that promotes healthy weight gain. Focus on nutrient-dense foods, make meals enjoyable, and be patient with the process. Remember that every child is different, and what works for one may not work for another. By providing a variety of healthy options and fostering a positive relationship with food, you can help your daughter develop healthy eating habits that will benefit her in the long run.

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