Future?
Hello Dr.
Duan,
I am a first-year social work student.
After enrolling, I worked as a social work assistant at a certain institution.
My personality is introverted and passive, but during my previous job, I actively collaborated with physicians to bring humor and comfort to patients.
Whether inside or outside the institution, I would show concern for patients.
However, at this new institution, I have completely lost my composure; I even make verbal mistakes when answering the phone and struggle to lead activities.
I am constantly being reprimanded by other administrative staff, who expect me to learn quickly.
I do take notes, but sometimes they speak too fast, and when I ask for clarification a second time, they become upset.
This has hindered my progress.
Later, the social work supervisor at the institution spoke with me to understand the details of my work.
After our conversation, it seemed that I was unable to proactively interact with patients or seek guidance from senior colleagues.
I feel overwhelmed and under significant pressure, to the point that I have forgotten how to relieve stress! It wasn't until my friends encouraged me that I began to remember how I used to teach others about managing stress.
After reflecting on my situation, I have decided to resign.
I have considered just finishing my degree and then taking civil service exams, focusing on learning software applications and obtaining certifications first.
Currently, I am looking for a job that doesn't require me to face many people, prioritizing my studies.
Once I obtain my certifications, I plan to seek related work, avoiding fields related to social work.
I would like to ask if I am unsuitable for a career in social work.
Thank you!
HAPPY, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/03/10
Dr. Duan Yongzhang reply Psychiatry
Hello: As you are still a student, it's too early to decide whether you are suited to be a social worker, so don't rush! You still have some time before graduation to better understand the nature of social work while also enhancing your self-awareness.
These decisions cannot be made based on just one or two experiences.
Moreover, the field of social work is vast, and social workers in different areas encounter various cases, which you will gradually come to understand.
Don't give up due to temporary setbacks.
Keep going!
Reply Date: 2007/03/10
More Info
It's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and question your suitability for a career in social work, especially after facing challenges in a new environment. However, it's important to remember that your experiences and feelings are part of a larger journey of self-discovery and professional development.
First, let's acknowledge that being introverted or passive does not inherently disqualify you from being a social worker. In fact, many successful social workers possess these traits. Social work is a diverse field, and there are various roles that may align better with your personality and strengths. For instance, some social workers thrive in one-on-one settings or in roles that require strong listening skills, empathy, and the ability to build trust, rather than in large group settings or high-pressure environments.
Your experience in your previous position, where you felt more comfortable and engaged, suggests that you have the potential to connect with clients and colleagues effectively. The key is to identify the environments and situations where you feel most at ease and can perform at your best. It’s also worth noting that the transition to a new workplace can be challenging for anyone, especially when the expectations are high and the pace is fast. It’s not uncommon to feel out of place or struggle with confidence in such situations.
Regarding your concerns about not being able to interact with patients or colleagues as you would like, consider that these skills can be developed over time. Social work training often includes opportunities for practice and feedback, which can help you build confidence in your abilities. It might be beneficial to seek out mentorship or additional training that focuses on communication and interpersonal skills. Engaging in role-playing scenarios or joining groups that focus on social skills can also provide a safe space to practice and improve.
If you feel that the current environment is not conducive to your growth, it’s okay to take a step back and reassess your options. Pursuing a different role that allows you to build your skills in a less pressured environment could be a wise decision. This could involve taking on positions that require less direct interaction with clients initially, allowing you to gain confidence and experience before transitioning back into more client-facing roles.
Moreover, it’s essential to prioritize your mental health and well-being. The pressure you’re experiencing can be overwhelming, and it’s crucial to find effective coping strategies. Techniques such as mindfulness, deep breathing exercises, or even speaking with a counselor or therapist can help you manage stress and anxiety. Remember, it’s okay to seek help when you need it.
Lastly, don’t rush to label yourself as unsuitable for social work based on a single experience. Your journey in this field is just beginning, and there will be many opportunities to learn and grow. Reflect on your motivations for wanting to be a social worker and the impact you wish to have on others. This can help guide your decisions moving forward.
In conclusion, take the time to explore your feelings and experiences, seek support, and consider your options carefully. Social work is a broad field with many paths, and with perseverance and self-reflection, you can find the right fit for you. Remember, every professional faces challenges, and it’s how you respond to them that will ultimately define your career.
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