The mind is playing tricks again?
I am afraid to seek medical treatment because I worry that my family will go crazy if they find out.
I have always struggled with self-confidence, and whenever negative thoughts flood in, I contemplate self-harm.
I often hear about people choosing to leave this world due to various issues, and I think to myself that they have found relief, which is unfortunate.
However, I don't want to tell my family that I have mental health issues; I even feel strange myself.
I enjoy being alone and dislike being around others, feeling like a burden to everyone.
I believe my world only consists of myself.
I am also studying in a related medical field, so I understand the importance of mental health, but I find it distressing to be in a field related to healthcare while struggling with my own mental health.
I feel like I might be a burden to others, and I don't know how much longer I can endure this pain.
Every day is a struggle.
Xiao Yi, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/11/07
Dr. Huang Weiqin reply Psychiatry
To the inquiring netizen: I understand that you are suffering due to psychological distress, and I would like to offer some suggestions.
If you are still in school, you can discuss your situation with a counselor at your school's counseling center to see if you would benefit from psychological counseling.
If you are a working professional, you can visit a local mental health clinic where a licensed psychologist can provide assessment and therapeutic support, or you can reach out to helplines such as Lifeline or Teacher Chang for assistance.
Additionally, psychiatrists or psychosomatic specialists at hospitals would be more than willing to welcome you and provide the necessary help.
Sincerely, Dr.
Huang Wei-Chin, Taoyuan Therapy.
Reply Date: 2007/11/07
More Info
It's understandable to feel overwhelmed by mental health issues, especially when there's a fear of stigma or judgment from family and friends. Many people struggle with similar feelings, and it's important to recognize that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Here are some thoughts and suggestions on how to navigate these feelings and take steps toward healing.
First, it's crucial to acknowledge that mental health challenges are common and can affect anyone, regardless of their background or profession. Even those who work in healthcare can experience mental health issues. This does not diminish your knowledge or capabilities; rather, it highlights the importance of self-care and seeking support when needed. Remember, mental health is just as important as physical health, and both require attention and care.
The fear of being judged or misunderstood by family can be a significant barrier to seeking help. However, consider that many families are more understanding than we might expect. If you feel comfortable, you could start by discussing mental health in general terms, perhaps sharing articles or resources that highlight its importance. This might help create a more open dialogue about mental health within your family, making it easier for you to share your own struggles when you're ready.
If direct communication feels too daunting, consider seeking help anonymously first. Many mental health professionals offer teletherapy or online counseling, which can provide a level of privacy and comfort. This way, you can begin to address your feelings without the immediate fear of being discovered by family members. Online resources, such as mental health hotlines or support groups, can also be valuable for connecting with others who understand what you're going through.
In terms of coping strategies, practicing mindfulness and self-compassion can be beneficial. Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help ground you in the present moment and reduce feelings of anxiety. Self-compassion involves treating yourself with kindness and understanding, especially during difficult times. Instead of criticizing yourself for feeling this way, try to acknowledge your feelings as valid and recognize that it's okay to seek help.
Engaging in activities that bring you joy or relaxation can also be a helpful distraction. Whether it's reading, painting, or spending time in nature, finding moments of peace can help alleviate some of the emotional burden. Additionally, physical activity is known to improve mood and reduce anxiety, so incorporating exercise into your routine could be beneficial.
Lastly, if you're feeling overwhelmed by thoughts of self-harm or escape, it's crucial to reach out for immediate help. Contact a mental health professional, a trusted friend, or a crisis hotline. You don't have to navigate this alone, and there are people who want to support you through this challenging time.
In conclusion, overcoming the stigma associated with mental health and seeking help is a journey that requires courage. Remember that you are not alone in this struggle, and there are resources and people available to support you. Taking the first step, whether it's through anonymous help or gradually opening up to loved ones, can lead to a path of healing and self-acceptance. Your mental health matters, and prioritizing it is essential for your overall well-being.
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