How to avoid having such thoughts?
Recently, when I feel unwell, I become afraid that I might be developing a serious illness, such as thinking my blurry vision could be a retinal detachment or my stomach discomfort might indicate gastrointestinal issues.
I worry about whether I have a serious illness that could be malignant.
This is quite distressing because I know I haven't seen a doctor; it's just a cold, and I'm taking medication, drinking plenty of water, and exercising.
However, I don't understand why these irrational thoughts keep appearing.
Am I just bored? Am I creating problems for myself? I find it hard to control these thoughts, and I really want to perform or live better than my peers (classmates, colleagues, friends), yet I feel guilty about having such thoughts, wondering why I have this urge to "trample on others."
I also feel troubled when friends frequently complain to me about their issues or constantly talk about their worries, as I feel there are many things I can't help with (like not wanting to go to work or how someone treated them).
Listening to them is frustrating because I feel overwhelmed with my own problems.
I’m not used to venting to classmates because if I mention that I have a cold and feel unwell, the other person might say, "I have a cold too, and I feel worse than you." I often think that reaching out to others is pointless.
However, I do confide in my family, and when classmates come to me, I feel helpless and want to avoid the situation.
This inability to help makes me feel guilty and I dislike having these thoughts.
Is there any way to make these feelings go away? I also wonder if these issues require seeing a doctor.
Would a doctor think I'm just "malingering"?
soul, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/11/13
Dr. Duan Yongzhang reply Psychiatry
With these physical and psychological concerns, it might be best to consult a physician to determine if there is an underlying condition.
However, psychological worries may not necessarily resolve the issue!
Reply Date: 2007/11/13
More Info
Overcoming irrational health fears and self-doubt can be a challenging journey, especially when these feelings are compounded by anxiety and the pressures of social interactions. It’s important to recognize that what you’re experiencing is not uncommon and that many people face similar struggles. Here’s a comprehensive guide to help you navigate through these feelings and regain a sense of control over your health and well-being.
Understanding Your Health Fears
Firstly, it’s essential to understand that health anxiety, often referred to as hypochondria, can manifest as an overwhelming fear of having a serious illness, even when there is no medical evidence to support such fears. This anxiety can be triggered by various factors, including personal experiences, societal pressures, or even just the natural human tendency to worry about health.
When you feel discomfort, your mind may jump to the worst-case scenario—such as thinking that a headache could be a brain tumor or that a stomach ache could indicate a serious gastrointestinal issue. This pattern of thinking is often irrational and can lead to a cycle of anxiety that is hard to break.
The Role of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
One effective approach to managing these irrational fears is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). CBT helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns and beliefs. By recognizing that your fears are often exaggerated or unfounded, you can begin to reframe your thoughts. For instance, instead of thinking, “I have a headache; it must be something serious,” you can remind yourself, “Headaches are common and can be caused by many benign factors, such as stress or dehydration.”
Keeping a thought diary can be beneficial. Write down your fears, the situations that trigger them, and the outcomes. Over time, you may notice that many of your fears do not come true, which can help reduce anxiety.
Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques
Incorporating mindfulness and relaxation techniques into your daily routine can also help manage anxiety. Practices such as deep breathing, meditation, and yoga can promote relaxation and help you stay grounded in the present moment. When you feel the urge to check your body for symptoms or Google your health concerns, try redirecting your focus to your breath or engage in a calming activity instead.
Setting Boundaries in Social Interactions
It’s also important to set boundaries in your social interactions. If you find that listening to friends’ complaints or health issues exacerbates your anxiety, it’s okay to excuse yourself from those conversations. You can gently steer discussions towards lighter topics or engage in activities that foster positive interactions. Remember, it’s not selfish to prioritize your mental health.
Seeking Professional Help
If your health anxiety becomes overwhelming or interferes with your daily life, seeking professional help is a wise decision. A mental health professional can provide you with tailored strategies and support. They can help you explore the underlying causes of your anxiety and develop coping mechanisms that work for you.
It’s a common misconception that seeking help means you are “making a fuss” or “complaining without reason.” In reality, acknowledging your struggles and seeking assistance is a sign of strength and self-awareness.
Conclusion
In conclusion, overcoming irrational health fears and self-doubt is a process that requires patience and self-compassion. By understanding your fears, utilizing cognitive-behavioral techniques, practicing mindfulness, setting social boundaries, and seeking professional help when needed, you can take significant steps toward managing your anxiety. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and it’s perfectly okay to seek support. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health, and taking care of both is crucial for a balanced and fulfilling life.
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