Complex psychological disorders
Hello, Doctor! Recently, I don't know what's wrong with me...
I often have very negative or distressing thoughts, and this has been going on for several months.
I feel so miserable! Every time I have these thoughts, I strongly blame myself and force myself to eliminate them! I used to never have such thoughts...
it feels like I'm a completely different person, and I want to present myself well, but I'm losing confidence! When I see children who are physically or mentally challenged, words like "idiot" and "fool" come to my mind! There was even a time when I couldn't believe how terrible I was; upon hearing about an accident, I thought, "Why wasn't I there to see it happen?" It seems like I'm blaming myself for not witnessing something tragic! I even often find myself secretly laughing at others' misfortunes, thinking I'm superior, and I frequently have thoughts of death! I really don't want to have these thoughts, but they just appear uninvited! Whenever these thoughts arise, I struggle and wrestle with them, fearing that one day I might be enslaved by these thoughts and do something I would regret! I'm so scared of this side of myself...
I don't know who to talk to.
I'm afraid that if I speak up, everyone will think I'm terrible and leave me! I don't know what causes me to have these thoughts; I just feel so disgusting about myself! I am clearly an easygoing person and, if possible, I often wear a smile! I understand my shortcomings; I know I'm very insecure, overly concerned about others' opinions, have excessive responsibility, get nervous easily, and lack courage (sometimes I don't dare to express what I dislike).
I'm a typical "nice person" who suppresses myself...
a bit pretentious! But while I suppress, I also know how to let my emotions out! Is having these thoughts a result of suppressing myself too much? If I want to appropriately express my emotions, how should I go about it? I don't know how to change myself to turn negative thoughts into positive ones! Although many people suggest ignoring these thoughts since they are just thoughts and don't actually harm anyone, I feel very guilty towards my conscience! I wonder if you could provide some constructive advice...
perhaps analyze my situation psychologically, share your thoughts, and give me some psychological guidance or tell me how to improve my current situation? Thank you very much for your help, and I appreciate you taking the time to understand my problem!
You Li Ya, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2008/01/25
Dr. Duan Yongzhang reply Psychiatry
Hello! You have been suffering for several months, and it would be best to seek assistance from an outpatient physician, as this is the most helpful approach for you.
You mentioned several psychological issues, and it is also recommended to discuss them in person with a physician.
Only by fully understanding your situation can they provide you with the best advice.
Reply Date: 2008/01/25
More Info
Dealing with negative thoughts can be a challenging and often overwhelming experience, especially when those thoughts become persistent and intrusive. It’s important to recognize that you are not alone in this struggle, and there are effective strategies to help you manage and overcome these negative thought patterns.
Firstly, it’s essential to understand that negative thoughts are a common aspect of human experience. They can arise from various factors, including stress, anxiety, depression, or even external circumstances such as difficult life events or changes in your environment. The key is not to judge yourself harshly for having these thoughts but to acknowledge them as part of your mental landscape.
One effective approach to managing negative thoughts is cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). CBT focuses on identifying and challenging distorted thinking patterns. When you notice a negative thought, try to question its validity. Ask yourself: “Is this thought based on facts? What evidence do I have that contradicts this thought?” This process can help you reframe your thinking and reduce the power of negative thoughts over time.
Another helpful technique is mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness encourages you to observe your thoughts without judgment. Instead of trying to suppress or eliminate negative thoughts, practice acknowledging them as they arise and then letting them pass without engaging with them. This can create a sense of distance from your thoughts, reducing their emotional impact.
It’s also crucial to cultivate self-compassion. Many individuals who struggle with negative thoughts tend to be overly critical of themselves. Instead of self-judgment, practice speaking to yourself with kindness and understanding. Remind yourself that everyone has flaws and makes mistakes, and that it’s okay to feel vulnerable.
In addition to these strategies, consider incorporating positive affirmations into your daily routine. Affirmations are positive statements that can help shift your mindset. For example, you might say to yourself, “I am capable and deserving of good things” or “I can choose to focus on the positive aspects of my life.” Repeating these affirmations can help reinforce a more positive self-image.
Physical activity is another powerful tool for improving mental health. Exercise releases endorphins, which are natural mood lifters. Engaging in regular physical activity can help reduce anxiety and depression, making it easier to manage negative thoughts.
Furthermore, it’s important to create a supportive environment. Surround yourself with positive influences, whether that’s friends, family, or supportive communities. Sharing your feelings with trusted individuals can provide relief and perspective. Sometimes, just knowing that someone else understands can make a significant difference.
If you find that your negative thoughts are overwhelming or leading to harmful behaviors, it may be beneficial to seek professional help. A mental health professional can provide tailored support and guidance, helping you develop coping strategies and work through underlying issues.
Lastly, remember that change takes time. Be patient with yourself as you navigate this journey. Celebrate small victories along the way, and recognize that setbacks are a natural part of the process. By implementing these strategies and seeking support, you can gradually shift your mindset and cultivate a more positive outlook on life.
In conclusion, overcoming negative thoughts is a multifaceted process that involves self-awareness, cognitive restructuring, mindfulness, self-compassion, and support. By actively engaging in these practices, you can reclaim your mental well-being and foster a more positive and resilient mindset.
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