Do I need to take medication?
Dear Doctor: I am 45 years old and maintain a regular exercise routine (tennis) once a week.
For several years, I have relied on watching adult films for sexual arousal.
During this time, I have been able to achieve an erection and ejaculation almost without fail.
However, recently, when I am with my girlfriend, I feel a lack of strength.
It's not that I can't get an erection, but rather that the hardness is insufficient or it softens quickly.
Yet, every morning, I experience significant morning erections that are as firm as those I had in my twenties, with an angle of about 11 o'clock, and I can maintain it for 30-40 minutes.
Should I consider taking medication (such as Viagra or Cialis)? I feel that without watching adult films, I cannot achieve an erection, but I do not want this situation to become a habit.
Are there any methods to enhance blood flow to the erectile tissue? Do I need to supplement with testosterone?
Howard, 40~49 year old female. Ask Date: 2009/04/20
Dr. Lin Hexing reply Urology
Hello, sir: Thank you for your inquiry.
I would like to respond to your question and provide the following suggestions: Based on your description, your sexual function has declined somewhat, but it is not severe enough to result in complete erectile dysfunction.
The use of Viagra (sildenafil) or Cialis (tadalafil) for treatment can be considered, as they can enhance penile blood flow and may also prolong ejaculation time.
After taking them a few times, it is possible that your confidence may increase, and your sexual function could improve further.
I do not recommend supplementing with testosterone at this time.
Lastly, I wish you peace and happiness!
Reply Date: 2009/04/20
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) can be a complex issue, especially when it involves psychological, physiological, and lifestyle factors. Based on your description, it seems that you have been able to achieve erections during solo activities but are experiencing difficulties during partnered sexual encounters. This discrepancy can often be attributed to performance anxiety, psychological factors, or even the conditioning that comes from relying on visual stimuli like adult films.
Understanding Your Symptoms
1. Erection Quality: You mentioned that you can achieve a strong erection when alone but struggle with maintaining it during intercourse. This could indicate a psychological component, such as anxiety or stress related to performance. It’s not uncommon for men to experience this, especially if they have been relying on visual stimuli to achieve arousal.
2. Morning Erections: The fact that you are still experiencing morning erections suggests that your physiological ability to achieve an erection is intact. Morning erections are typically a sign of healthy blood flow and hormonal function, indicating that the erectile tissue is functioning normally.
3. Physical Activity: Regular exercise, such as playing tennis, is beneficial for overall health and can improve blood circulation, which is crucial for erectile function. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can help mitigate some of the factors contributing to ED.
Do You Need Medication?
Given your situation, medication like Viagra (sildenafil) or Cialis (tadalafil) could be an option, but it’s essential to consider a few factors:
- Consultation with a Urologist: Before starting any medication, it’s advisable to consult with a urologist. They can perform a thorough evaluation to rule out any underlying medical conditions, such as cardiovascular issues or hormonal imbalances, that could be contributing to your symptoms.
- Psychological Factors: If anxiety or psychological factors are at play, therapy or counseling might be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address performance anxiety and improve sexual confidence.
- Lifestyle Modifications: In addition to medication, consider lifestyle changes that can enhance erectile function. This includes maintaining a healthy diet, reducing alcohol consumption, quitting smoking, and managing stress.
Enhancing Blood Flow
If you’re looking for ways to enhance blood flow to the erectile tissue without medication, consider the following:
- Pelvic Floor Exercises: Kegel exercises can strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which can improve erectile function and control.
- Healthy Diet: Foods rich in antioxidants, such as fruits and vegetables, can improve blood circulation. Omega-3 fatty acids found in fish can also support vascular health.
- Hydration: Staying well-hydrated is essential for optimal blood flow.
Hormonal Considerations
Regarding testosterone supplementation, it’s crucial to have your hormone levels checked before considering this option. Low testosterone can contribute to erectile dysfunction, but supplementation should only be pursued if there is a confirmed deficiency.
Conclusion
In summary, while medication can be an effective treatment for erectile dysfunction, it’s essential to approach the issue holistically. Consulting with a urologist will provide you with a clearer understanding of your condition and the best course of action. Additionally, addressing psychological factors, making lifestyle changes, and considering pelvic floor exercises can all contribute to improved erectile function. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men experience similar challenges. Seeking help is a positive step toward regaining confidence and improving your sexual health.
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