How to Cope with Exam Stress and Anxiety: A Guide for Students

What should I do?

Hello, doctor.
First of all, I am currently facing a major exam, and I have set my own goals.
I know that the pressure of preparing for this exam is immense, but I find it difficult to calm down and concentrate on studying.
My attention span is constantly disrupted, which is making me increasingly anxious.
Sometimes, when I perform poorly, I experience inexplicable shortness of breath and chest pain.
Now, I habitually feel sharp pains between my ribs.
Additionally, my reactions to stressors, particularly my parents, have become somewhat negative over the past year.
After arguments, unlike before, I often break down instantly and feel chest tightness, among other symptoms.
I often feel that hitting a wall could relieve these repressed feelings.
I also become inexplicably irritable and angry at their seemingly normal concern for me.
During my breakdowns, I prefer to isolate myself in a very dark room.
Even when they have calmed down, I still find myself trapped in a state of depression and unable to escape.
I wonder if this is a buildup of issues from my childhood that has suddenly erupted now.
By the way, about six months to three months ago, I also experienced severe insomnia, and at times, I would feel overly energetic, finding everything appealing and not easily fatigued.
Then, after a while, I would completely change, and those around me would think something unfortunate or bad had happened to me.
At school, I interact normally with others; although my friends, classmates, and even teachers can tell whether I am feeling good or bad, my conversations and interactions with them do not seem "too abnormal." However, it is different with my parents.
What is wrong with me? What should I do?

Piao Piao, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2009/08/25

Dr. Chen Zhicai reply Psychiatry

If stress management has not been ideal, then find a nearby physician and bravely confront your issues! Dr.
Chen Zhi-Cai

Reply Date: 2009/08/25

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Coping with exam stress and anxiety is a common challenge faced by many students, especially during high-stakes testing periods. Your experience reflects a combination of academic pressure, familial expectations, and emotional turmoil, which can significantly impact your mental health and overall well-being. Here are some strategies and insights to help you navigate this difficult time.

Understanding Your Anxiety
First, it's important to recognize that anxiety is a natural response to stress, particularly when facing significant challenges like exams. Symptoms such as difficulty concentrating, rapid breathing, chest pain, and irritability are common manifestations of anxiety. These physical and emotional responses can create a vicious cycle, where anxiety leads to poor performance, which in turn increases anxiety.

Your feelings of frustration and anger towards your parents, especially when they express concern, can stem from the pressure you feel to meet their expectations. This dynamic can exacerbate feelings of isolation and sadness, making it harder to cope with stress. Understanding that these reactions are part of your anxiety can be the first step towards managing them.

Strategies for Coping
1. Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Engaging in mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help calm your mind and reduce anxiety. Techniques like progressive muscle relaxation or guided imagery can also be beneficial. These practices require regular commitment, so try to incorporate them into your daily routine.

2. Break Tasks into Manageable Steps: Instead of viewing your study material as one overwhelming task, break it down into smaller, more manageable sections. Set specific goals for each study session, and reward yourself for completing them. This approach can help reduce feelings of being overwhelmed and increase your sense of accomplishment.

3. Establish a Routine: Creating a structured study schedule can help you manage your time effectively and reduce anxiety. Include breaks and leisure activities in your schedule to ensure you have time to relax and recharge. Consistency can provide a sense of control and predictability, which is often comforting during stressful times.

4. Seek Support: Don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or a counselor for support. Sharing your feelings and experiences can alleviate some of the burdens you carry. Sometimes, just talking about your anxiety can help you feel less isolated and more understood.

5. Limit Comparisons: It's easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others, especially peers who seem to handle stress effortlessly. Remember that everyone has their own struggles, and focusing on your own progress is more beneficial than comparing yourself to others.

6. Consider Professional Help: If your anxiety becomes overwhelming or if you experience persistent symptoms like insomnia or mood swings, it may be beneficial to consult a mental health professional. They can provide tailored strategies and, if necessary, discuss medication options to help you manage your symptoms effectively.

7. Physical Activity: Regular exercise is a powerful stress reliever. It can improve your mood, increase energy levels, and enhance your overall sense of well-being. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week.

8. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Ensure you are eating a balanced diet, staying hydrated, and getting enough sleep. Poor nutrition and lack of sleep can exacerbate anxiety and affect your ability to concentrate.

Conclusion
Coping with exam stress and anxiety is a multifaceted process that requires patience and self-compassion. Acknowledge your feelings and understand that it's okay to seek help. By implementing these strategies, you can create a more supportive environment for yourself and develop healthier coping mechanisms. Remember, exams are just one part of your educational journey, and taking care of your mental health is paramount. You are not alone in this struggle, and with the right tools and support, you can navigate through it successfully.

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