Impact of Quitting DIY on Erectile Function and Recovery After Marriage - Urology

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If you no longer want to DIY?


The doctor would like to ask you: if you stop the DIY habit and wait until after marriage to have a normal sexual life, will the transition from DIY to no DIY cause any degradation in erectile function or other sexual functions? If there might be some impact, can it be improved after engaging in a normal sexual life? (You usually maintain an exercise routine.) Thank you for your response, doctor!

DF, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2014/01/20

Dr. Xu Weikai reply Urology


DF: Hello, as long as your organ function is normal, whether you have engaged in DIY or the duration of DIY will not have any adverse effects on your sexual life in the future.
However, if there are any organ dysfunctions, it is best to seek medical attention as soon as possible.
If there are any unclear points, feel free to ask again, and we can discuss and research further.
Answers from the internet should only be used as a reference; if necessary, you should visit a medical institution for treatment.
This message is from Dr.
Hsu Wei-Kai, Director of the Urology Department at Taitung Hospital, Ministry of Health and Welfare, who cares about you.

Reply Date: 2014/01/20

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When considering the impact of quitting a DIY (do-it-yourself) habit, particularly in the context of sexual health and erectile function, it's important to understand the physiological and psychological aspects involved. DIY, in this context, likely refers to practices such as masturbation, which is a common and natural behavior among individuals.
Firstly, it is essential to clarify that engaging in masturbation does not inherently lead to erectile dysfunction or a decline in sexual performance. In fact, studies have shown that regular ejaculation, whether through masturbation or sexual intercourse, can be beneficial for prostate health and may even help in maintaining erectile function. However, excessive reliance on DIY methods, particularly if they involve unrealistic expectations or habits that may desensitize an individual to sexual stimuli, could potentially lead to difficulties in achieving or maintaining an erection during partnered sexual activity.

If an individual decides to quit DIY and transition to a normal sexual relationship after marriage, the effects on erectile function can vary. For some, the absence of DIY might lead to a temporary adjustment period where they may experience challenges in achieving the same level of arousal or erection quality that they had become accustomed to during solo activities. This is often due to the psychological shift from self-stimulation to partnered intimacy, which can involve different levels of anxiety, excitement, and emotional connection.

However, it is crucial to note that these challenges are typically temporary. Once a person begins to engage in regular sexual activity with a partner, the body can adapt and improve erectile function over time. The key factors that contribute to this recovery include:
1. Psychological Adjustment: Transitioning from DIY to partnered sex may require a mental shift. Open communication with a partner about desires, preferences, and any anxieties can help alleviate performance pressure and enhance sexual experiences.

2. Physical Health: Maintaining a regular exercise routine, as you mentioned, is beneficial. Physical fitness contributes to overall cardiovascular health, which is crucial for erectile function. Regular exercise improves blood flow, reduces stress, and can enhance libido.

3. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Avoiding smoking, limiting alcohol consumption, and managing stress are all important factors that can positively influence erectile function. A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can also support sexual health.

4. Gradual Reintroduction: If there are concerns about erectile function after quitting DIY, gradually reintroducing sexual activity with a partner can help. This allows the body to adjust and can lead to improved performance over time.

5. Consultation with Healthcare Professionals: If difficulties persist, consulting a healthcare provider or a sexual health specialist can provide additional support and guidance. They can offer tailored advice and, if necessary, explore any underlying medical conditions that may affect erectile function.

In summary, quitting DIY and transitioning to a normal sexual relationship after marriage is unlikely to cause permanent degradation in erectile function. While there may be an initial adjustment period, engaging in regular, healthy sexual activity can lead to improvements in erectile quality and overall sexual satisfaction. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle and fostering open communication with a partner are key components in this process.

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