Easily feels anxious and uncomfortable?
Hello doctor, since I started university, I'm not sure if it's due to the pressure, but I find it difficult to engage with others like I used to.
I easily get nervous in class, and I have a problem with shoulder and neck pain.
Whenever I feel uncomfortable or anxious, my shoulders and neck become stiff or tremble (suddenly).
For example, if I feel like someone is watching me write, my hands shake and my shoulders tense up, which is a very uncomfortable feeling.
It can also happen when I’m having my pulse taken in traditional Chinese medicine; I feel very uneasy, and then my shoulders and neck become stiff again.
However, when I am in a relaxed emotional state, I never suddenly feel stiffness in my shoulders and neck, so I don't know what to do.
Ula, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/08/24
Dr. Ding Shuyan reply Psychiatry
Hello, we often face various situations that can trigger feelings of nervousness and anxiety, while some situations may not have the same effect.
You can pay attention to which recurring situations provoke your anxiety and reflect on your thoughts during those times.
Keeping a record for a period will help you identify patterns, allowing you to explore areas for improvement, which is a part of cognitive therapy.
Additionally, when anxiety arises, it often manifests physically through symptoms such as trembling and muscle tension.
Therefore, psychological and physical symptoms can sometimes be interrelated, appearing and disappearing together.
Typically, it is challenging to mentally calm ourselves or reduce excessive worry, but it is relatively easier to relax our muscles.
However, muscle relaxation training should be practiced regularly and cannot be done last minute.
Once you learn techniques for quick relaxation, you can apply them immediately when needed, which will help alleviate anxiety and muscle tension.
This is a fundamental aspect of simple behavioral therapy.
There are many videos on YouTube that teach muscle relaxation techniques, and you can practice along with them.
Wishing you all the best,
Dr.
Ding Shuo-Yan
Reply Date: 2015/08/24
More Info
It sounds like you are experiencing significant anxiety and physical symptoms related to stress, particularly in social situations and during moments of self-consciousness. This is not uncommon among college students, as the transition to university life can bring about various pressures, including academic expectations, social dynamics, and personal challenges. Let’s break down your concerns and explore some strategies for managing anxiety and its physical manifestations.
Understanding the Connection Between Anxiety and Physical Symptoms
Anxiety often manifests not only as emotional distress but also through physical symptoms. The body’s response to stress involves the activation of the sympathetic nervous system, which can lead to muscle tension, particularly in areas like the shoulders and neck. When you feel anxious or self-conscious, your body may react by tightening these muscles, leading to discomfort or pain. This is a common reaction known as somatic symptomatology, where psychological distress translates into physical sensations.
In your case, the tension in your shoulders and neck, especially when you feel observed or judged, suggests a heightened state of alertness or anxiety. This can create a cycle where the anticipation of discomfort leads to more tension, which in turn exacerbates feelings of anxiety.
Strategies for Managing Anxiety and Physical Symptoms
1. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practicing mindfulness can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or guided imagery can reduce tension and promote relaxation. For instance, when you notice your shoulders tightening, take a moment to breathe deeply, focusing on relaxing those muscles.
2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This therapeutic approach helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns that contribute to anxiety. Working with a therapist can provide you with tools to reframe your thoughts about social situations, reducing the fear of judgment and helping you feel more at ease.
3. Physical Activity: Regular exercise is a powerful way to manage stress and anxiety. Activities like yoga, swimming, or even brisk walking can help release endorphins, improve mood, and reduce muscle tension. Yoga, in particular, combines physical movement with breath control and mindfulness, making it an excellent choice for addressing both physical and emotional symptoms.
4. Social Skills Training: If social interactions are a source of anxiety, consider engaging in social skills training or joining groups that focus on communication skills. This can help build confidence in social settings and reduce feelings of discomfort when interacting with others.
5. Seek Professional Help: If your symptoms persist or worsen, it may be beneficial to consult a mental health professional. They can provide a comprehensive evaluation and recommend appropriate treatments, which may include therapy or medication if necessary.
6. Establish a Routine: Creating a structured daily routine can provide a sense of stability and predictability, which can be comforting during times of stress. Incorporate regular breaks and self-care activities into your schedule to help manage stress levels.
7. Limit Stimulants: Reducing the intake of caffeine and sugar can help minimize anxiety symptoms. These substances can exacerbate feelings of nervousness and tension, so consider opting for herbal teas or water instead.
Conclusion
Your experience of anxiety and physical symptoms is valid and can be addressed through various strategies. By incorporating relaxation techniques, seeking professional support, and engaging in physical activity, you can work towards reducing your anxiety and improving your overall well-being. Remember, it’s important to be patient with yourself as you navigate these challenges, and seeking help is a strong and positive step towards feeling better.
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