Help! I'm a 14-Year-Old Struggling with Growth and Menstruation - Pediatrics

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Doctor, I beg you to help me, please QAQ?


I am a second-year junior high school student, and I haven't gotten my period yet.
My height is only 151 cm, and my weight is 37 kg.
I live in a rural area and am raised by my grandparents, so my diet is not very good; I only eat simple meals.
I would like to know if there are any ways to address this issue.
I vomit when I drink yogurt, so I don't consume dairy products often.
There are no women in my family (except for my grandmother who had a stroke) who can help me.
I really don't know how to solve this.
Doctor, please help me; I am the shortest in my class.

Ni, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/02/04

Dr. Xiao Kaiwen reply Pediatrics


According to the growth curve percentiles for your age, both your height and weight are at the 3rd percentile (meaning you rank among the lowest three out of one hundred girls your age).
This meets the criteria for referral for further evaluation (to check bone age and hormone levels).
Therefore, the best advice for you is to visit a pediatric endocrinology department at a major hospital to check for any physiological abnormalities.
Early detection and treatment are crucial, as once you have passed puberty and the growth plates have fused, you will no longer be able to grow taller.

Reply Date: 2016/02/04

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It's understandable to feel concerned about your growth and development, especially during your teenage years when many changes are happening. At 14 years old, you are still within the age range where growth can occur, but several factors can influence your height and overall development.

Firstly, it's important to recognize that genetics plays a significant role in determining height. If your parents are of average height, it's likely that you will fall within a similar range. However, this doesn't mean you can't grow taller; many individuals experience growth spurts later in their teenage years.
Your current height of 151 cm and weight of 37 kg suggest that you may be on the lower end of the growth spectrum, but it's crucial to focus on your overall health rather than just height. Nutrition is a key factor in growth. Since you mentioned that your diet is not very varied and that you struggle with consuming dairy products, it would be beneficial to explore alternative sources of essential nutrients.
Here are some recommendations to help support your growth and overall health:
1. Balanced Diet: Aim for a balanced diet that includes a variety of foods. Focus on incorporating fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Foods rich in calcium (like leafy greens, almonds, and fortified plant-based milk) and vitamin D (found in fatty fish, egg yolks, and fortified foods) are particularly important for bone health.

2. Protein Intake: Ensure you are getting enough protein, which is essential for growth. Sources include beans, lentils, chicken, fish, eggs, and nuts. If you have difficulty with certain foods, try to find alternatives that you enjoy.

3. Hydration: Drink plenty of water throughout the day. Staying hydrated is important for overall health and can aid in digestion and nutrient absorption.

4. Regular Exercise: Engage in regular physical activity. Activities like swimming, basketball, or even simple exercises like stretching and jumping can stimulate growth hormones and improve your overall fitness.

5. Sleep: Ensure you are getting enough sleep. Growth hormone is primarily released during sleep, so aim for 8-10 hours of quality sleep each night. Establishing a regular sleep schedule can help improve your sleep quality.

6. Consult a Healthcare Professional: Since you mentioned living in a rural area and having limited access to healthcare, consider reaching out to a local clinic or health service that can provide guidance. A healthcare professional can assess your growth and development and may recommend supplements if necessary.

7. Mental Health: It's also important to address any feelings of anxiety or stress related to your growth and body image. Talking to someone you trust, whether it's a teacher, counselor, or family member, can help you process these feelings.

8. Avoiding Pressure: Lastly, try not to put too much pressure on yourself regarding your height. Everyone grows at their own pace, and it's essential to focus on being healthy rather than just meeting a specific height goal.

In summary, while there are no guaranteed methods to increase height, focusing on a balanced diet, regular exercise, adequate sleep, and seeking professional guidance can help support your growth and overall health. Remember, your worth is not determined by your height, and embracing your unique journey is essential.

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