Management of Premature Ejaculation
I am 13 years old and have noticed a problem with premature ejaculation; I ejaculate in less than a minute while using my phone.
I don't feel comfortable talking to my parents about it.
Are there other ways to treat or avoid this issue?
Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/03/04
Dr. Lin Wenxu reply Urology
Regarding the issue of premature ejaculation, which is often caused by psychological factors, it is recommended that you take the time to visit a urology clinic for consultation and treatment with a physician.
Reply Date: 2016/03/04
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common concern among adolescents, and it's understandable that you might feel embarrassed discussing it with others, including your parents. However, it's important to know that you are not alone and there are effective solutions available for managing this condition.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand that PE can be influenced by various factors, including anxiety, stress, and lack of experience. At your age, your body is going through many changes, and sexual experiences can sometimes be overwhelming. Here are some strategies that may help you manage premature ejaculation:
1. Relaxation Techniques: Anxiety can exacerbate PE. Practicing relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can help reduce anxiety levels. When you feel more relaxed, it may help you gain better control during sexual activities.
2. Behavioral Techniques: There are several techniques that can help you manage PE. One common method is the "stop-start" technique, where you or your partner stimulate the penis until you feel close to ejaculation, then stop until the urge decreases. This can help you learn to control your arousal levels better.
3. Pelvic Floor Exercises: Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles can improve your control over ejaculation. Kegel exercises, which involve tightening and relaxing the muscles used to stop urination, can be beneficial. To perform Kegel exercises, identify the right muscles, then contract them for a few seconds before relaxing. Aim for several repetitions throughout the day.
4. Communication with Partners: If you have a partner, open communication can help alleviate some of the pressure you may feel. Discussing your concerns and working together to find solutions can enhance intimacy and reduce anxiety.
5. Professional Guidance: If your concerns persist, consider seeking help from a healthcare professional. A doctor or therapist specializing in sexual health can provide personalized advice and treatment options. They may suggest counseling, which can help address any underlying anxiety or emotional issues.
6. Avoiding Stimulants: Reducing or avoiding substances like caffeine and nicotine can also help, as these can increase anxiety and affect your sexual performance.
7. Education and Understanding: Learning more about sexual health and what is considered normal can help reduce anxiety. Understanding that many young men experience PE can help you feel more at ease.
It's important to remember that PE is a common issue, and many young men experience it at some point. As you grow older and gain more experience, it often improves. If you feel comfortable, consider discussing your concerns with a trusted adult or healthcare provider who can offer support and guidance.
In conclusion, while premature ejaculation can be concerning, there are effective strategies to manage it. Relaxation techniques, behavioral methods, pelvic floor exercises, and professional guidance can all contribute to improvement. Remember, it's okay to seek help, and you don't have to face this alone.
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